Follow-up text after second date?

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Follow-up text after second date?

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    salt.flow
    salt.flow
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    February 10, 2019 at 10:24 pm #194612
    Follow-up text after second date?

    I (21/F) have had two dates with this guy (21/M), both of them went pretty well and I can tell the attraction is mutual. Goodlooking extrovert and very bubbly, but I’ve noticed he occasionally gets shy around me. Totally fine, I think its cute.

    Its been almost two days since we had our second date. Pretty casual, we had plans to go out but ended up staying in since he didn’t feel the best. We still had a good time but I know he felt bad about not being able to go out. Great convo, chemistry, kissing and cuddling, and so on.

    He’s usually the one to message first but he hasn’t sent anything yet. Note: I have no problem initiating but he’s just always beaten me to it before. I know he has something going on today plus I’m wondering if he’s feeling bad/embarrased. He kept apologizing about ‘disapointing’ me but I felt like I reassured him.

    I have no idea what follow up text to send and I just know I’m overthinking it.

    ineedsomuchhelp
    ineedsomuchhelp
    Participant
    February 12, 2019 at 7:08 pm #194849

    wow
    just don’t overthink it

    chicago22
    chicago22
    Participant
    February 21, 2019 at 9:39 pm #195368

    Just send a text first

    viltz
    viltz
    Participant
    March 12, 2019 at 8:42 am #196488

    “How to Make A Man Commit To You”
    When it comes to getting a man to commit, it’s important to know where to start.Since you can’t force a relationship, it’s key that he feels a desire to be with you. In other words, he needs to believe that his life is greater with you in it.
    That said, you can’t push or pressure him to be with you. If you do, he’ll only pull away.

    florence90
    florence90
    Participant
    March 13, 2019 at 5:03 am #196599

    I would text him take that next move. Good luck!

    TTIOT1
    TTIOT1
    Participant
    March 14, 2019 at 8:16 pm #196767

    Send him a text. I know it’s crazy but us guys actually like when women assert themselves and makes the first move. It’s tiring at times to always have to make the first move, the first text, the first message after a date.

    jessica22
    jessica22
    Participant
    March 19, 2019 at 3:22 pm #197098

    Reach out to him. I usually let the guy be the first one the after a couple dates but then after 3/4 times I think they enjoy the reverse, as it shows some reciprocal interest. Do it!

    Sam123
    Sam123
    Participant
    March 19, 2019 at 5:16 pm #197120

    Intiate the contact else you will never know

    Anonymous
    Anonymous
    March 22, 2019 at 10:46 pm #197475

    Send it