Follow-up text after second date?

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Follow-up text after second date?

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    February 2, 2019 at 2:59 pm FORUM ANNOUNCEMENT

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    salt.flow
    salt.flow
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    February 10, 2019 at 10:24 pm #194612
    Follow-up text after second date?

    I (21/F) have had two dates with this guy (21/M), both of them went pretty well and I can tell the attraction is mutual. Goodlooking extrovert and very bubbly, but I’ve noticed he occasionally gets shy around me. Totally fine, I think its cute.

    Its been almost two days since we had our second date. Pretty casual, we had plans to go out but ended up staying in since he didn’t feel the best. We still had a good time but I know he felt bad about not being able to go out. Great convo, chemistry, kissing and cuddling, and so on.

    He’s usually the one to message first but he hasn’t sent anything yet. Note: I have no problem initiating but he’s just always beaten me to it before. I know he has something going on today plus I’m wondering if he’s feeling bad/embarrased. He kept apologizing about ‘disapointing’ me but I felt like I reassured him.

    I have no idea what follow up text to send and I just know I’m overthinking it.

    ineedsomuchhelp
    ineedsomuchhelp
    Participant
    February 12, 2019 at 7:08 pm #194849

    wow
    just don’t overthink it

    hiolu
    hiolu
    Participant
    February 12, 2019 at 10:18 pm #194852

    hey it was funny haning out with you we should hang out again