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salt.flow

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February 10, 2019 at 10:24 pm #194612

Follow-up text after second date?

I (21/F) have had two dates with this guy (21/M), both of them went pretty well and I can tell the attraction is mutual. Goodlooking extrovert and very bubbly, but I’ve noticed he occasionally gets shy around me. Totally fine, I think its cute.

Its been almost two days since we had our second date. Pretty casual, we had plans to go out but ended up staying in since he didn’t feel the best. We still had a good time but I know he felt bad about not being able to go out. Great convo, chemistry, kissing and cuddling, and so on.

He’s usually the one to message first but he hasn’t sent anything yet. Note: I have no problem initiating but he’s just always beaten me to it before. I know he has something going on today plus I’m wondering if he’s feeling bad/embarrased. He kept apologizing about ‘disapointing’ me but I felt like I reassured him.

I have no idea what follow up text to send and I just know I’m overthinking it.

ineedsomuchhelp

Participant

February 12, 2019 at 7:08 pm #194849

wow
just don’t overthink it

chicago22

Participant

February 21, 2019 at 9:39 pm #195368

Just send a text first

viltz

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March 12, 2019 at 8:42 am #196488

“How to Make A Man Commit To You”
When it comes to getting a man to commit, it’s important to know where to start.Since you can’t force a relationship, it’s key that he feels a desire to be with you. In other words, he needs to believe that his life is greater with you in it.
That said, you can’t push or pressure him to be with you. If you do, he’ll only pull away.

florence90

Participant

March 13, 2019 at 5:03 am #196599

I would text him take that next move. Good luck!

TTIOT1

Participant

March 14, 2019 at 8:16 pm #196767

Send him a text. I know it’s crazy but us guys actually like when women assert themselves and makes the first move. It’s tiring at times to always have to make the first move, the first text, the first message after a date.

jessica22

Participant

March 19, 2019 at 3:22 pm #197098

Reach out to him. I usually let the guy be the first one the after a couple dates but then after 3/4 times I think they enjoy the reverse, as it shows some reciprocal interest. Do it!