Friend confusion


Friend confusion

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    October 9, 2017 at 2:19 pm #151985
    Friend confusion

    Been close friends with a woman for two years now, last year I asked her out and she said she’s never seen me as anything other than a friend and I left it at that. Lost contact for 3-4 months after that but when we came back to college again (I’m 22, she’s 21), she started being friendlier than ever and spending larger amounts of time with me. She’s normally a flirty person, but it’s gotten to the point where 4 or 5 people have asked me if we’re dating. She says things when she’s drunk that make me think one thing and then ignores me for 1-2 days after (happened 2 or 3 times now). I’ve been unwilling to say anything as she is a very large, positive influence on my life at a point in time when I don’t have many, and I don’t want to push her away again. At the same time, I’ve always had feelings for her and I can handle those feelings when I know where she stands because there’s a line, but now that line seems blurred and I feel stuck in limbo land with no idea where I stand.