Friend needs money


Friend needs money

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    January 1, 2020 at 10:49 pm #227093
    Friend needs money

    I have a friend who sold his home 8 months ago. He received a $70,000 check. The list below is everything he has done over the past 8 months.
    What should i do with him ?

    1. he quit his job
    2. he spent the entire $70,000
    3. he did not provide a roof over his head
    4. he lived in an extended stay hotel
    5. he moved into an apartment with a friend
    6. he moved out of the apartment because the friend moved out
    7. Winter time begins
    8. he lived in his car
    9. his car needed engine work
    10. due to the engine repair i let him stay in my basement
    11. the car is repaired
    12. he is still in my basement (now for about 1 month)
    13. he knows i am not pleased with this situation (he expressed that)
    14. he is looking for work

    January 2, 2020 at 12:26 pm #227180

    Life is a (personal) journey!
    For the most part our lives are the end result of the choices (we) have made along the way.

    Avoid taking on projects or becoming co-dependent.
    Give him a target date to move out and stick to it!

    Focus on your own life and happiness.
    Life is too short to be trying to change water into wine.