Friend to girlfriend?


Friend to girlfriend?

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    February 6, 2018 at 1:30 pm #164690
    Friend to girlfriend?

    There’s a female friend of mine, and we’ve known each other (though we’re not *that* close) for over a year. We’ll meet up for coffee, maybe go to the theater together. But all on an ‘only friends’ basis. We’ll also talk regularly on messenger, both of us initiating the conversation. Over the past month or so, I’ve developed feelings for this girl but I’m not sure these are mutual. We met up recently for coffee and I noticed she was looking down a lot (as if on her phone, but her phone was actually in her bag), and therefore avoiding eye contact. At a recent party – where I wasn’t in attendance – I gather she asked a mutual friend if I was gay (I’m not). So, my question is, are either of these signs telling? I’ve never dated before, so I’m rather ignorant! And furthermore, I don’t want to make a move which could subsequently ruin a friendship. Any advice?