Friend Zoned?

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Friend Zoned?

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    Aquaman
    Aquaman
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    September 2, 2018 at 5:40 pm #183296
    Friend Zoned?

    Today, I met an amazing woman while on a job, there was an instant connection and we talked for hours. When the job was done, I got her number and shes said she’d like to go out for dinner and drinks soon. I texted her that night so she had my number and we ended up sending flirty texts. At the end of those texts, she sent me this: “You’re sweet. Thank you so much 🙂 You’re pretty amazing too my friend!!”

    Does this mean I have been friend zoned???

    slimslim25
    slimslim25
    Participant
    September 4, 2018 at 10:25 pm #183407

    I think “my friend” was a play on words and her being silly. If shes flirting, then thats all that should really matter in my opinion. Keep the flirting going and see where it ends up as opposed to being hung up on word choice.

    overdrive
    overdrive
    Participant
    September 6, 2018 at 12:26 pm #183540

    Hmm… I don’t think you’ve been friends zoned just by this sentence You haven’t been out on your first date yet.

    I would at least go out on one or two dates and if she still thinks if you was just a friend you should know it by then

    Plus you’ve been sending flirty texts back-and-forth so she definitely has some interest

    RaffyZalds36
    RaffyZalds36
    Participant
    September 6, 2018 at 7:07 pm #183611

    Ask her directly, maybe she just don’t understand what is your inttention to her.

    doublecreekfarm1918
    doublecreekfarm1918
    Participant
    September 8, 2018 at 1:13 am #183758

    My best advice…tell her your true feelings…..

    A. de Tocqueville
    A. de Tocqueville
    Participant
    September 8, 2018 at 4:16 pm #183763

    She might be playing with you, go on a date with her and see what happens.

    whitney0587
    whitney0587
    Participant
    September 10, 2018 at 8:17 am #183791

    I agree, I would go on a date with her and see how it goes. If you guys continue to date and you develop feelings for her, then express that. Hope the date goes well!

    lostinlife
    lostinlife
    Participant
    September 10, 2018 at 4:12 pm #183910

    As a lady, I’d say no she’s not friendzoning you. But also there are obviously girls out there who might try to take advantage, but personally I like to give people the benefit of the doubt. And if she wants to do dinner and drinks one on one, that says to me that she’s interested in being more than friends. Best of luck!

    Cathy116
    Cathy116
    Participant
    September 12, 2018 at 5:57 pm #184155

    I don’t think she’s friendzoning you. Go talk to her for real and tell her your feelings. I sometimes sound like that too and im interested in the guy. GOOD LUCK.