GF not happy I have a female housemate

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GF not happy I have a female housemate

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    johndoe5
    johndoe5
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    July 3, 2018 at 3:51 pm #178654
    GF not happy I have a female housemate

    I can’t afford to not rent the room that just opened up at my townhouse. The only replacement candidate who passed a background check is a girl whom I know, but have no romantic history with. We’ve been acquaintances for 4 years and she stumbled across my listing on craigslist for the room.

    Long story short, my girlfriend is super uncomfortable about it. I’ve never hidden anything from her or lied to her about anything. I know it’s ultimately deep rooted insecurity from a past relationship where she was cheated on in a similar situation. She knows that she shouldn’t be bringing in baggage from past relationships but unfortunately she can’t help but “feel” uncomfortable and upset, despite the fact I’ve done nothing to compromise her trust.

    I’m trying to figure out how to help her feel ok and secure about the situation.

    As of right now she won’t come over anymore, meet the new roommate, or even try giving it a chance.

    Help…