Ghosted then he came back. C

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Ghosted then he came back. C

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    gigi
    gigi
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    December 5, 2018 at 8:48 pm #190564
    Ghosted then he came back. C

    I’ve matched with a guy on a dating app and soon enough we moved to whatsapp. He’s been messaging me constantly and then, all of a sudden, went ghost on me. For a few days I was wondering what was going on but I never texted him, because I didn’t want to lose my dignity by messaging a guy who maybe lost interest. Then a few days later he texted something like “missed me?” with a laughing emoji. I’ve never been this confused before. Wtf? What kind of stupid games are males playing these days? Should I respond? Or send him straight back to hell, where he belongs?

    frankt
    frankt
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    December 6, 2018 at 10:52 am #190593

    I would not respond at all. The reason is: missed me with a laughing emoji that you got. When you did not hear from him for a few days, it is possible something happened in his life, but there is no way for you to know that. I would wait and see if he comes back to you with a more mature responsible message. Until then, move on. He will find out that ghosting and silly missed me laughing emoji messages will not get a response.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    December 26, 2018 at 11:12 am #191690

    “He’s been messaging me constantly and then, all of a sudden, went ghost on me.”
    “..I was wondering what was going on but I never texted him, because I didn’t want to lose my dignity…”

    So basically when HE stopped texting you it’s ghosting/a game but if YOU don’t text him it’s about Your Dignity?

    Maybe he felt like HE was making all the effort to keep in contact and wanted to see what would happen if he stopped.
    Unlike you he (caved in) and “lost his dignity” and reached out to you again.
    The only game he was playing was to see if there was mutual interest and clearly there is not.
    For all you know he could have been in the hospital, had a death in the family, or was in jail.

    Apparently he was already in hell once he realized he was the only one initiating contact.
    He foolishly believed the old adage: “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.”
    Admit it to yourself, YOU were never really {into this guy}.
    Block him and set him free to find a girl who might actually CARE or (want him).

    doesntmatter
    doesntmatter
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    March 18, 2019 at 8:53 am #196923

    This is a guy who’s been ghosted by girls plenty of times before; he’s just doing a little “get-back” to save face and get some revenge. Girls throw away guys after propping them up, left and right. That’s how it’s done today. Obviously ignore him. Telling him anything will just further his journey.