Girl emasculated me at the end of our first date..

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Girl emasculated me at the end of our first date..

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    CamiciaNera
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    December 10, 2017 at 11:53 am #159600
    Girl emasculated me at the end of our first date..

    I’m a 19 year old guy. Last night, I went out with a girl and had a good time, we really hit it off and I thought that she might be someone I can consider, until the end. The check came, I put my money in it and then I had to go to the bathroom. I left for three minutes and when I got back she handed me my money and told me that she decided to pay and was waiting for the waiter to bring her card back, and that I “could” leave the tip. I was angry and humiliated, I told her from the start that I’m quite a traditional person, and instead of letting me pay for the meal she emasculated me. She seemed to think that it was cute and funny but I felt castrated and was furious. I told her that I was getting tired, drove her home and when she went to kiss me I turned my head so that she kissed my cheek, and drove away.

    Should I tell her that I’m not interested, or give her another chance after telling her that I don’t like how she acted and that I don’t want her to do it again?


    Dazza
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    December 11, 2017 at 8:48 am #159602

    Tbh I think you have over reacted and she wanted to pay because she really enjoyed the date and has interest in you. If you have said anything rude you should probs my apologise and say you over reacted. Be happy she didn’t mind paying