Girl I met says she’s a mess

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Girl I met says she’s a mess

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    boomersooner
    boomersooner
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    July 14, 2019 at 12:35 am #203628
    Girl I met says she’s a mess

    So here is the situation. I work at a coop and for harvest we have part time help that comes in and runs the scales. Well long story short they hired a girl and we hit it off from hour one of meeting her. After getting to know her for a week I find out she’s a lesbian but really isn’t a lesbian ( got into a situation with another girl and got too deep and the rest is history) she broke up with her girlfriend as soon as she started at the coop. Well after a couple of weeks of working with her and talking one night I decided to ask her on a date after she was teasing me why I like her. She said I’m not in the right head place to go on a date and it’s not fair to you if I did. Give me some time to figure things out. I guess what do I do or what does this mean?

    boomersooner
    boomersooner
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    July 14, 2019 at 12:49 am #203629

    Guess I should add to this I am a male. And she just got out of a relationship with another girl but says she would someday like to have a heterosexual relationship!

    FemaleFriends123
    FemaleFriends123
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    July 15, 2019 at 8:41 am #203638

    I truly believe a person’s gender is fluid. In this day and age, you can love whoever you want to love regardless of gender. Yes, she could’ve have been a lesbian when she was with her girlfriend, but if she shows interest in you. It could be possible. If she needs space because of her break-up, give her that. At the end of the day, when she’s ready to date again, you would know.