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ShaaaParticipantOctober 10, 2017 at 10:46 am #152141
There’s this girl who I’ve been seeing on the bus since the past 5-6 months. We sometimes make eye contact but I’m still not sure if I should go upto her and ask her out. In general do most women stop giving a fuck if the guy takes too long to initiate?
rich1001ParticipantOctober 22, 2017 at 11:52 pm #153673
sit right next to her and say hi…be confident and have something interesting to say. girls love confidence (fake it if you have to) and are turned off by hesitation and weakness….this is a universal fact of life
Serendipity13ParticipantOctober 27, 2017 at 11:48 pm #154336
The best thing to do is introduce yourself to her, make conversation! You got this!
Chelsea7eParticipantOctober 28, 2017 at 11:15 am #154359
Most women would appreciate you making the first move. She is probably just as shy as you are. And if you are already making eye contact with her take that as a plus and a possible chance with her. Women are just like men they want what they can’t have, a cute guys she sees on the bus most days but is too scared to talk to you. You never know she could be thinking the same think. Just give it a try.
RastadreadsParticipantOctober 28, 2017 at 11:40 pm #154376
Ya man, you just gotta go for it, it’s never too late to start something new. Count yourself down if you have to, next time you see her on the bus, make eye contact like usual, smile and sit down next to her
brendale899ParticipantOctober 29, 2017 at 12:19 am #154380
Just go up to her and say, “Hi” and make some small talk. Just keep it friendly and simple just in case it doesn’t turn into something else at least it won’t be awkward when you see each other again. I’ve had guys make small talk with me on the train and the ones that I didn’t mind talking to me were always friendly and kept it short. So things like, Hey, how you doing? My name is ____. There are other guys who have creeped me out by just staring at me or saying something weird to me.
Pedro1ParticipantOctober 29, 2017 at 1:07 pm #154387
You just have to go and introduce yourself, otherwise you wil never know who she is other than phisically.
happygolucky13ParticipantNovember 5, 2017 at 12:48 am #155095
Personally I’d try it in baby steps. Perhaps that’s where I go wrong. Just saying hi, then working it up from there every couple of days. If it’s been that long it might be strange to just come out with asking her out on a date. Find out a bit about her. Make conversation. Then make the move.
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