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matty145ParticipantOctober 28, 2017 at 9:34 am #154352
So this girl I’ve been hanging out with lately just texted me this last night.
Me: I thought we had fun
Her: Yeah I did too but honestly I’m afraid to get attached or anything because always turns out bad for me in the long run
What do I say to this and how do I play this situation? She texted me this last night.
DayzerParticipantOctober 28, 2017 at 9:44 am #154354
Perhaps encourage taking things slow — any attempt to rush into a relationship with this person will probably make them feel stressed. If you two enjoy spending time with one another then just keep doing that, but don’t force anything to happen. If she’s had poor experiences in the past then you need to make her feel comfortable with you.
lost101ParticipantOctober 28, 2017 at 9:08 pm #154371
you could reply: I totally understand where you come from, I don’t want to see you get hurt, so maybe we could take things slow? However I’d love to see you again [insert date] maybe?
10023711ParticipantOctober 29, 2017 at 1:18 pm #154391
If you agree with her statement, it will make her want you even more.
SushimelodyParticipantOctober 30, 2017 at 2:22 pm #154482
I might be too late with this reply, but i agree with lost101’s response. If she’s afraid to be attached and you are seriously interested in her then reply that you are ok with taking things slow and make sure you show her that things won’t become bad between you two. I was in a similar situation, my ex was afraid to date due to a bad previous relationship but in the end I played things slow and it took 6 months before we started going out.
Best of luck!
lovequestionParticipantOctober 31, 2017 at 9:29 am #154590
I would say something like this: “Hey. I had a great time. Listen, it sounds like you are not ready right now, but if you change your mind, give me a call.” Then, don’t contact her. After a couple of days she is going to be thinking about you and if she is interested, she will contact you.
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