Girl tries to annoy me, red flag?

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Girl tries to annoy me, red flag?

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    jason90
    jason90
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    December 8, 2018 at 9:53 pm #190744
    Girl tries to annoy me, red flag?

    Hello,

    So there’s this girl I know through mutual friends. She’s in her mid twenties. So a few days ago she walked up to me and we had the following interaction

    Her: Do I annoy you?
    Me: No, why?
    Her: Damn! I’ve been trying to annoy you, it’s funny.

    All of this was said with a smile on her face and she initiated the conversation. So two things: is this a form of flirting? More importantly, is this a potential red flag? Could this be an indicator of attention seeking behavior?

    Thanks!

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    December 9, 2018 at 6:46 pm #190752

    Clearly she is looking to flirt with you and wanted to get your attention.
    It’s only a “red flag” if you are considering getting into a relationship with her.
    Even then it may not be so much a “red flag” but rather a sign your idea of humor is different from hers.
    If you’re not interested her intentions do not matter.

    bigheartcoldworld
    bigheartcoldworld
    Participant
    December 13, 2018 at 8:32 am #190974

    She might be flirting but I don’t think she knows what she wants. You need to figure out exactly what you want and in turn she will do the same.

    PinkFlareon
    PinkFlareon
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    December 13, 2018 at 8:32 am #190982

    Some chicks especially in that age range, including me, suck nuggets at flirting. That was her idea of sounding playful and trying to flirt. Ita not at all a red flag, just be aware that she may not only do that to you, but based on that level of bad flirting, probably safe. She wants to be on your radar and all we women hear is to be direct, confident, and playful. Boom. So that’s all it was. Playful flirting. Attention seeking is WAY worse and you’d notice her roping along a lot of dudes if she were like that, and I’m guessing she isn’t.

    twinkystar
    twinkystar
    Participant
    December 17, 2018 at 1:48 pm #191190

    I think this is a sign of flirting. I don’t know, though. I’ve never flirted and no one has flirted with me.

    devdo
    devdo
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    January 10, 2019 at 12:36 am #192291

    I would suggest that you forget about having a relationship and bang her for all she’s worth.