Girlfriend flirting with someone else

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Girlfriend flirting with someone else

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    JOE13
    JOE13
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    December 22, 2019 at 8:05 am #226923
    Girlfriend flirting with someone else

    Hi,
    I am 46, my GF is a 37 single mom. Few months ago she went out to a club with some girls, i found out that she ended up flirting and dancing with a 21 year old guy. Before i find out, she told me that some guy came to her, talked to her while she was dancing, but she refused him and sent him away. I found out that she danced with him, i confronted her with this, and said “yeah, i forgot, we danced a little bit, few seconds, but that’s it”, and swore that it was it. After a while, i saw some videos made by someone that night, i saw that she danced in an intimate way with him, several times, spoke and laughed several times, they even danced on the table, also in an intimate way (when i say intimate, i didn’t see any kissing, but intimate positions, grinding…etc).
    I confronted her again with this and she said that simply she forgot about that dancing on the table, because she was drank and the reason that she danced with him because we had a fight that day.
    Any thoughts?

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    December 23, 2019 at 11:49 am #226960

    You already know she’s a liar so why keep confronting her?
    Only YOU know if YOU want a woman who flirts with other guys and let them grind on her.
    A 37 year old woman also knows what she is doing. Blaming it on the alcohol is so immature.
    At this stage in life you both should be done with the “girls/boys night out” mixed with alcohol.

    Clearly the two of you are not in agreement on how couples in a relationship should behave.
    You’re better off moving on to find someone else who is more suitable.
    Expecting someone to become who they are not is a waste of your time!

    Life is too short to be trying to change water into wine.
    The goal is to find someone who (already is) what you want in a mate.

    Thankfully there are over 7 Billion other people on the planet!
    Suffering is optional.