Girlfriend problems

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Girlfriend problems

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    dburg7454
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    June 3, 2018 at 10:45 pm #176024
    Girlfriend problems

    I’m 19 and my girlfriend is 18. Lately I’ve become very jealous of what may seem like strange reasons to most but I feel like I need advice to know how to look at these things and overcome my problems. My girl has a very close realationship with her older sister. I feel like when she spends time with her which is usually 3-4 days at a time, she has much more fun than when she’s with me. While she’s there they many times drink while she’s at her apartment and I rarely ever get invited to these things to enjoy drinking with my girlfriend. Also she’s only stayed the night at my house once in what is a year now and when she goes there like I said she usually stays for half a week. Often times I’ve felt like I’ve had to fight for time with my girlfriend over her sister who I forgot to mention was 25 I think. I understand that she has to spend time with her family but I have become very jealous the last several months and I feel like it’s not for very good reasons. I feel like I just don’t


    dburg7454
    Participant
    June 3, 2018 at 10:46 pm #176025

    Know how to look at things the right way. But it just really gets under my skin at times and considering I tend to be an anxious person as well doesn’t help matters at all. I hope someone here can help me.


    dburg7454
    Participant
    June 4, 2018 at 8:09 am #176026

    She’s very slow to text me back as well when she’s with her. When I say slow I’m talking about 20 mins to an hour almost every text. I would like to say that I know for a fact that she is not cheating on me. So everyone please stay away from that idea.


    dburg7454
    Participant
    June 4, 2018 at 8:09 am #176027

    I would like to say that I know for a fact she is not cheating so please stray your replies from that topic.


    tvdfan123
    Participant
    June 4, 2018 at 12:28 pm #176121

    Hi, sorry to hear that you are experiencing such problems. My advice to you first and foremost is to express how you’re feeling to your girlfriend. Ask her to take some time out just to have a chat about how things are going in your relationship and try and communicate your feelings to her. Express to her that you feel that she is giving more time and attention to her sister rather than you and ask her whether she has noticed this or not. Tell her how you feel about her and how you think the relationship is going at the moment. Suggest that you two do more things together that ensure that you can have that extra time that you need to bond. A few suggestions would be to go on a picnic or go out for dinner. I hope things get better in your relationship and that you overcome your problems. Let us know how it gets on.