Going to a speed dating event in 5 days and am really nervous. Any advice?

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Going to a speed dating event in 5 days and am really nervous. Any advice?

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    KindLovingPerson
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    February 28, 2020 at 2:11 am #230624
    Going to a speed dating event in 5 days and am really nervous. Any advice?

    I’m not really the most confident guy so I’m just kinda stressing thinking about it. I know I have to start getting outside my comfort zone more and this’ll be a huge step for me.

    I kinda was just hoping you guys can make me feel a little better and give me advice. I’ve only dated one girl before.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    February 29, 2020 at 7:01 pm #230661

    Know yourself, Love yourself, Trust yourself.
    The person who is doing the “selling” is always more nervous than the person doing the buying.
    Adopt a “buyers mentality” instead of a “seller’s mentality”.

    You’ve got nothing to lose!
    Worst case scenario you go home with what you started out with.
    Relax and have FUN!

    KindLovingPerson
    KindLovingPerson
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    March 3, 2020 at 8:06 am #230714

    Know yourself, Love yourself, Trust yourself.
    The person who is doing the “selling” is always more nervous than the person doing the buying.
    Adopt a “buyers mentality” instead of a “seller’s mentality”.

    You’ve got nothing to lose!
    Worst case scenario you go home with what you started out with.
    Relax and have FUN!

    Thanks that’s good advice

    KindLovingPerson
    KindLovingPerson
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    March 3, 2020 at 8:06 am #230715

    @dashingscorpio Thanks that’s good advice

    KindLovingPerson
    KindLovingPerson
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    March 3, 2020 at 8:06 am #230716

    Thanks that’s good advice

    Clarak
    Clarak
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    March 3, 2020 at 10:40 am #230734

    Hiya, I couldn’t help but notice that you’re going speed dating. I created an account on here as for my Uni dissertation I am doing all about dating in the modern world. So I was wondering if I could be a bit cheeky and ask if there is any chance i’d be able to ask you some questions after you’ve attended speed dating just to gain some consumer research on what kind of dating methods appeal to people and why, it would be a great help!

    Now for the advice… have fun and go with no expectations!!! Remember everyone is in the same boat as you so if you’re nervous think how they must be feeling too, and think of the sense of achievement you’ll feel afterwards, nothing ventured nothing gained! This is a stepping stone into finding someone you could be with for life, so don’t rush the process just enjoy it! I wish you every success and hopefully i’ll find out how it went afterwards 🙂