Guys and eye contact

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Guys and eye contact

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    krystalviolin
    krystalviolin
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    March 10, 2019 at 8:47 am #196309
    Guys and eye contact

    So I had a first date with a guy recently. And I made a lot of eye contact. And he did, too. But sometimes he didn’t. I wanna know, like, in general: Are guys more uncomfortable with eye contact than girls? Or am I being creepy? He had beautiful eyes tho

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    March 10, 2019 at 2:18 pm #196311

    Gender has very little to do with eye contact.

    Some people are more shy than others and in some instances they may find being (stared at) intimidating.
    There is a fine line between looking into someone eyes with infatuation and piercing their soul or being creepy.
    No one wants to have a “staring contest” on a first date. Feeling uncomfortable is a date killer.

    If someone doesn’t have a “great time”/FUN on a {first date} they’re not going to want a second date.
    This is especially true if they paid for the date. A good (first date) usually has flirtatious banter, laughter, and smiles.
    Very few people feel RELAXED and comfortable with someone constantly looking them the eyes.

    freshman176
    freshman176
    Participant
    March 12, 2019 at 2:57 am #196475

    Yeah just because he isn’t making eye contact doesnt mean he doesnt like you.

    arethamorce
    arethamorce
    Participant
    March 14, 2019 at 4:03 am #196683

    eye contact on guys is not usual most of the time his eyes was lock looking at your boobies

    afireblue
    afireblue
    Participant
    March 14, 2019 at 12:29 pm #196717

    If this was your fist meeting he was probably nervous…. give him a second chance before you judge

    TTIOT1
    TTIOT1
    Participant
    March 14, 2019 at 8:14 pm #196766

    Yeah if he was nervous or anxious at all he’s going to have times of not making eye contact. Give him a second chance.

    MargretC
    MargretC
    Participant
    March 17, 2019 at 7:57 am #196909

    Guys are just humans too, some are shy with eye contact even if they are not shy in other ways 🙂
    If the date went good in general you should not worry about it

    Sam123
    Sam123
    Participant
    March 19, 2019 at 5:30 pm #197121

    No eye contact means he is shy and probably introvert

    riserise
    riserise
    Participant
    March 20, 2019 at 8:44 am #197128

    could be on the autism spectrum too. some people hate eye contact. nothing personal