Guys only like me for my looks?

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Guys only like me for my looks?

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    ksv333
    ksv333
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    March 4, 2020 at 9:37 pm #230873
    Guys only like me for my looks?

    I am 22 and it seems that I have no problem attracting men physically, but it never goes beyond that (when it does, it is not reciprocated from me). Is this normal?

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    March 5, 2020 at 12:40 am #230874

    Most guys in their 20s are either living in a college dorm or just escaped their parents’ basement.
    They’re looking to establish a career, party with friends, watch sports, play video games, and get laid.
    The thought of getting married, signing a 30 year mortgage, and having is like watching their life flash before their eyes!
    Most men don’t start seriously consider settling down until they’re in their late 20s or even early to mid 30s.
    Oftentimes young men “fall into relationships” and are not out proactively looking for girlfriends or wives.

    Having said that ALL men pursue women for dates based upon their attraction to them!
    It’s not as if they had money burning a hole in their pocket and simply wanted any woman to go out with them.
    There’s a reason why they chose to ask (you) instead of the girl with buck teeth, crater skin, and crossed eyes!

    Men look for physical attributes, sense of humor, friendly/flirtatious personality and everything else is icing on the cake.
    As for you not wanting to reciprocate bear in mind you’re only 22 and probably are not ready to settle down.
    Most people in their 20s are dating for fun while pursuing other goals. Some women also go through a “bad boy” phase.

    Anonymous
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    March 7, 2020 at 2:30 am #231064

    I would disagree. There are plenty of guys that are around your age that are looking for a relationship, but you have to have confidence. If you don’t think that you have anything to offer on the inside it will come off that way. You can bait men with looks but you have to have somethong in common with that person to build a relationship. Maybe you aren’t hanging out in crowds with other people that want relationships. Your interests and the crowd that you’re hanging with may be to blame for this situation.

    lly223
    lly223
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    March 7, 2020 at 3:04 am #231070

    it is true that a lot of guys are just interested just for the loos but there are some that are interested in having a real connection and you have to be able to tell the difference.when you go out on a date also try engaging their minds on important subjects or topics so you both can share your views and he will be able to tell that you’re not only beauty you also come with brains understanding and depth..try this article t helped me