Had a first call and haven't heard from her since

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Had a first call and haven't heard from her since

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    ikonik
    Participant
    May 26, 2018 at 5:17 pm #175397
    Had a first call and haven't heard from her since

    I met this girl online which I’ve been talking to for a couple weeks now. We recently moved the convo to texting and had our first call a couple nights ago. It went pretty well from what I thought, it went about twenty minutes but randomly she said ‘literally both her parents were calling at the same time and if she could call me right back.’ She never did (it was late, almost ten and a weeknight). I didn’t text or call her the next day but today I texted her asking how the weekend is going. She said she was staying at her parents’ place for the long weekend. I’m just worried she used the parents calling as an excuse to get off the call. But we haven’t even met yet and I didn’t say anything I shouldn’t have had. I was thinking of texting her again on Tuesday to follow up, good idea?

    I think she’s interested, since whenever we were texting during the week she was pretty responsive, and when she got off work she responded almost immediately. So I can’t imagine she already lost interest.


    Coach_Michael21
    Participant
    May 28, 2018 at 12:29 pm #175414

    It seems as though there is very little data here to go off of. Her lack of response could be due to a number of things:

    1) She really did get a call from her parents, and she needed to take those calls. The fact that she’s now with her parents may be an indication that she was being truthful in the interaction.

    How well do you know this girl? It’s possible she may be having some problems with her parents that need to be worked out, and that’s taking up a good deal of her time.

    2) It could be that she’s not interested. Usually, when a girl is interested, she will at least text you if it’s late and apologize for not being able to call you back. That may or may not be a bad sign.

    I would say to proceed with texting like everything’s normal and see how she reacts/doesn’t react. Her responses should give a further indication of how she feels. Of course, if you’re really bold, you can just ask her out, and then you’ll know for sure=) Good luck!


    ikonik
    Participant
    May 28, 2018 at 3:44 pm #175417

    Thanks, we’ve only been talking a couple weeks and texting for only a week. We haven’t even met yet. I was actually thinking of checking in tomorrow and possibly asking her out after that depending on how she responds.


    Coach_Michael21
    Participant
    May 29, 2018 at 10:06 am #175433

    Great! I’m interested to hear how it goes. Keep us posted! Good luck!