Have been in love with this guy for 11 years

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Have been in love with this guy for 11 years

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    Sachi
    Sachi
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    February 26, 2020 at 1:01 pm #230530
    Have been in love with this guy for 11 years

    I have been in love with this guy from my school ever since I was a teenager. We were acquaintances in school but haven’t been in touch after that. A few months ago I started talking to him through fb. We chatted 2-3 times. It’s always me who initiates the conversation but he always replies to my texts. A month ago I told him about my feelings (that I love him for that last 11 years) and asked him out. He replied that he appreciates the fact that I told him about my feelings and will let me know when he is free so that we can meet. But it’s been more than a month and I haven’t heard from him again. I am so confused and hurt. Please tell me what to do.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    February 27, 2020 at 5:53 pm #230613

    “I have been in love with this guy from my school ever since I was a teenager.”
    “We were acquaintances in school but haven’t been in touch after that..”

    “It’s {always me} who initiates the conversation..”

    “He replied that he appreciates the fact that I told him about my feelings and will let me know when he is free..”
    “..it’s been more than a month and I haven’t heard from him again. I am so confused and hurt.”

    You shouldn’t be confused at all!
    If a guy is “into you” he is going to make the effort and find the time to be with you.
    Clearly he was “flattered” you have a crush on him but he is NOT romantically interested in YOU.

    Guys get rejected all the time.
    In a world with over 7 Billion people rejection just means: Next!
    Go where you’re appreciated and not tolerated.

    “Never love anyone who treats you like you’re ordinary.” – Oscar Wilde

    Best wishes!

    lly223
    lly223
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    March 7, 2020 at 3:36 am #231071

    this s so touching and too some courage to as him out. proud of you. you do not realize the mile stone you achieved in doing that and don’t want you to worry much about hm you have told him how you felt give him space to reach out if he’s interested and if not now i t ‘ s hard to say but you just have to move on.

    Coldphoenix1
    Coldphoenix1
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    March 7, 2020 at 10:47 am #231082

    It does sound like he was trying to let you down gently… which is so heartbreaking but as others have said maybe time to move on?
    Or if you really want to pursue it, maybe give it some time and ask him for a drink or something? I’m not sure how is the best way to catch his interest sorry 🙁