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lella22ParticipantJuly 29, 2017 at 5:21 pm #143563
Met a guy on Tinder, and we clicked instantly. After chatting every day for about a week, we went on a date. It was so fun, we were so comfortable with each other, and he treated me to dinner. Afterwards he texted me right away, saying things like “5/5 would do it again”, and “next time you get to pick the place”, so the next day I asked him if he wanted to go kayaking on Thursday. He said he would love to, and continued asking me questions and being very interested in my life up until Wednesday. That night he said he hurt his thumb, so I asked if he wanted to do something else instead, and he replied “Yes please! I would love to hang out with you!” and then proceeded to block me on instagram and snapchat (and I think phone too, because he never replied to my texts I sent in response). All day I was checking my phone waiting for a reply, and then I finally realized that is what had happened. What on earth happened? So upset because I really liked him.
lella22ParticipantJuly 29, 2017 at 5:24 pm #143564
Also, he was always saying things like “Omg tell me more about that on Thursday”…. It’s just so weird how suddenly this all happened
AnonymousJuly 29, 2017 at 9:02 pm #143568
well that guy understands female psychology, they reason why you want to have him more is because he pushed you away at that time when things were going sweet, this is advanced mind control technique. You didn’t do anything wrong, he is just making you fall in for him, he is using the technique called pull and push on you fortunately you can also employ the same on him.
MMX7979ParticipantAugust 3, 2017 at 4:09 am #144118
Well, I would say that he was dating another girl while dating you and made a decision to go for the other one. Online dating can be tough and I have been in this situation many times too. Nothing you can do about it – just keep on looking until you find a guy who wants you.
CarmelaParticipantAugust 12, 2017 at 11:18 am #145231
Sometimes guys ghost to get you to chase. Perhaps try engaging with him again?
CantCYParticipantAugust 14, 2017 at 10:52 pm #145485
Wow if someone did that to me I’d be pissed and wouldn’t care the reason. That’s not cool.
NaomiParticipantAugust 20, 2017 at 1:09 pm #146197
Wow, I understand why you’re confused. It’s not your fault, it’s just him being immature. As hard as it is, try not to waste anymore of your precious time on this guy. Behaving like this, he’s not worth it IMHO.
pineapplemalibuParticipantAugust 20, 2017 at 9:46 pm #146209
Something very similar to this happened to me recently. It sucks, because I thought we got along amazingly. He kept talking about all the things we could do together, then suddenly ghosted.
I agree with what MMX7979 said, he was possibly dating others and clicked better with another girl.
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