He said that in the end he will fall in love with me . What does that mean ?

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He said that in the end he will fall in love with me . What does that mean ?

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    sdmsk
    sdmsk
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    February 25, 2020 at 5:12 pm #230467
    He said that in the end he will fall in love with me . What does that mean ?

    We are seeing for a year and a half. During that time, he said that he loves me while he was drunk, I did not say anything. One month ago he said by accident that he loves me and then he corrected himself and said that I am dear to him. He asked me several times do I love him and I said no, but next time he would ask me again that. Last night he told me while we were together that I am dear to him, and he “In the end, I will fall in love with you.” What does that mean ?

    Mia8xxx
    Mia8xxx
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    February 26, 2020 at 12:07 pm #230512

    Hi Sdmsk,

    It means that he wants some validation from you that you feel the same for him as he does for you.
    He clearly loves you, or at the very least has deep feelings for you, so if you feel the same don’t hesitate to tell him as he needs affirmation of your love!
    If you are not at the stage where you want to declare your love for him then really be honest with yourself as to if you will ever feel the same for him.
    If you cannot envisage a future with him then do not waste his time and find someone for yourself that you can love wholly and fully.
    Whatever you do-best of luck!

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    February 27, 2020 at 7:16 pm #230619

    “He said that in the end he will fall in love with me . What does that mean ?”
    “We are seeing for a year and a half.”
    “He asked me several times do I love him and {I said no}…”

    Based upon what he said it sounds like he believes you’re going end up married or sharing your lives together.
    Essentially he’s saying: “The timing isn’t right” at this moment for him to fully commit.
    Whether he’s seeing other women or pursuing other goals right now he believes (you) are “the one” for him.

    If you don’t love a man after dating him for 1 1/2 years why bother caring what he means?
    It’s not as if you’re going to fall in love with someone just because they claim to be in love with you.

    You probably do both him and yourself a favor by breaking up with him.
    It makes no sense for you to invest more years in a relationship with someone you don’t care that much about.
    Life is short. The goal is to find a “soulmate” not a “cellmate”.

    Best wishes!