HELP. 2 year relationship going down the drain.


HELP. 2 year relationship going down the drain.

  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
    June 6, 2018 at 7:59 pm FORUM ANNOUNCEMENT

    Hey forum readers! Just a quick heads up that a few dating sites are offering a FREE trial to DatingAdvice forum readers. Try it now and meet local singles in just a few minutes! Here are the sites:

    Site Who You'll Meet Today's Deal Casual dating for ages 18-65 Get FREE access
    Elite Singles Educated professionals 25 and older Get FREE access Hookups, casual encounters Get FREE access

    What are you waiting for? One mouse click could be all that stands between you and your next romance!

    September 28, 2017 at 11:24 pm #150845
    HELP. 2 year relationship going down the drain.

    We had money issues for the last 4 months, causing stress&fighting. I worked full time while she sat at home. It caused me to get mad at her&I worked later to stay away&avoid fighting. She begged me to come home bc she missed me, but I just couldn’t handle it. We met online, she moved to my hometown to be with me. After constant fighting she decided to move back home so we could have some time apart. A few weeks after she wanted me to go with her. She started working&was getting herself together. I told her I wanted to come but I needed to work bc of the debt we accumulated. After a few weeks of going back&forth she just stopped. When I realized I was gonna lose her if I didn’t move I moved. I been here for three weeks now. She told me she begged me to come &when I finally decided to come she had given up. Now she isn’t ready for a relationship. She works then hangs out with her friends and avoids me as much as she can bc she knows I’m ready for a relationship&she isn’t. Any advice?

    October 20, 2017 at 5:12 am #153480

    Still the same?

    December 12, 2017 at 6:10 pm #159903

    I think she sounds incredibly selfish. It is responsible of you to pay for the debt you guys have accumulated and the fact that she can just dump that on you speaks volumes. You deserve better. I would have a heart to heart with her. Get out what you are feeling and if she doesn’t feel the same don’t wait on her. Although she seems amazing I can guarantee that there is another person out there that will make you feel the way you want to and respects you.