Help me this Difficult Girl


Help me this Difficult Girl

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    September 10, 2014 at 8:29 pm #61748
    Help me this Difficult Girl

    There is this girl whom I’ve flirted with for the past 9 months, but never actually got around to starting anything serious. We’ve kissed and made out once or twice, and whenever we hung out, we’d always flirt with one another. However, recently, after finally asking her out and hanging out alone with her a few times, I messed up. I freaked out due to the fact I assumed she was leading me on, when really I was just pushing too hard, and perhaps she wasn’t quite ready yet. Long story short, I tried pushing for sex one night, and than called her out on leading me on, when really she probably just wasn’t ready. I ended telling her I liked her, but if she didn’t feel the same don’t waste my time. I realized what an idiot I was, and apologized to her, through text. She didn’t respond for a day, but finally said let’s just forget about. We haven’t talked in two days, and I’m wondering if I should give her space and try getting back together, or move on. We do see eachother everyday at work.