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[endlessloveParticipant]

November 21, 2017 at 8:36 pm #157150

Help!! Need help deciding which woman to choose

This is the first time I’ve ever been in this position but I’m in a dilemma of choosing between two beautiful women. These two women, Elena and Isabela, who I’m fortunate enough to meet and get to know are as different as night and day.
The first woman, Elena is 28 years old, she’s a banker and is outdoorsy because she likes parasailing, sports and trekking. At first, I was a little bit intimidated because I’m a bit out of shape so I couldn’t come up with some first date ideas. She took pity on me and suggested that we have dinner instead which was fine. I was thinking about what I need in my life and she fit that mold because she’s active and young and knows how to have fun.
I’m not sure why this young Latina woman was so into me but she was. She told me I’m mature and set in my ways, and that she needed “taming” so she could get her life together. In my opinion, I think she’s handling her life alright.
The second woman, Isabel is 32 years old. She’s a single mother of an adorable

[ArshiaParticipant]

November 22, 2017 at 7:23 pm #157258

I don’t have much experience in dating, so don’t take my advice too seriously when making your decision, but:

I think you should go on more dates with both of them, and after that, I think you’ll know which one you really like. Just make sure to choose one when things start to get more serious, so that you don’t start leading them on, and have to make a harder choice down the line.

[we1234Participant]

November 23, 2017 at 12:19 pm #157285

I agree you should go on more dates and don’t worry about having to make a decision. If it’s meant to be it will happen. Get to know them both a little better and then you will know.
Good luck.

[YeniseiParticipant]

November 29, 2017 at 12:30 pm #157755

Since you’re spoilt for choice, definitely go on some more dates since you need more Information about them and your chemistry with them in order to make a decision. I would, however, caution you not to wait too long to decide.

[TTGParticipant]

November 29, 2017 at 2:38 pm #157782

I agree with not making a decision too early. In the end, you can consider which person better suits you in the long term. Which person do you supplement more that you feel makes you a better overall person? And think about how you would fit for them as well.

[KairiozukiParticipant]

December 23, 2017 at 5:13 am #160904

Chose the one, witch brings the most pleasure to yourself. Witch gives you special feelings inside. Go on more dates for sure, but if you’ll find the right one, you wouldn’t need our advice, in my opinion. you would just know it