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What are you waiting for? One mouse click could be all that stands between you and your next romance!February 12, 2018 at 2:06 am #165259
I’m 25 and have huge crush on this girl who is 29. We were working in the same office.I guess she also likes me as I caught here staring me several times. Also she was the first to start the conversation most of the times when we met.
But when I asked the reason for staring, she got tensed and said there is nothing like that and I’m like her younger brother. But I think, she said this in stress because she might have thought I was complaining and I’m younger than her. But I’m not sure about this. How can I approach her to know her true feelings? Or do I need to drop idea of approaching her at all as she hitted me like a brother. I like her very much.
GalaxyHeartParticipantFebruary 12, 2018 at 11:00 am #165320
uhhh maybe she likes you but she know it will never work out because your younger and also you are co-workers.February 12, 2018 at 2:26 pm #165362
I think the question about staring might have freaked her out. But I was expecting a positive response from her on that question. Also I have said sorry to her if I have hurt her and she said it is OK and have forgotten about that. What does this implies?
TechnicalFlukeParticipantFebruary 12, 2018 at 6:44 pm #165394
i would have never been forward and asked her why she’s staring. that would have freaked me out if someone said that to me.
Just be casual and just keep talking to her until things settleFebruary 26, 2018 at 8:41 am #166402
Thanks guys for the response. By the way I missed out one important detail that she had left our work place 3 weeks ago (for better job opportunities) only making my chances to approach her difficult as hell. And she dont have profile on any social media either. She can be contacted only through phone. But contacting her on phone seems somewhat awkward to me right now. Or how do I initiate conversation/message on phone that will not make her awkward either if possible? Any advice on this?
By the way she will be coming to my office within a month for last time for some documentation formalities. At that time she will be meeting all the colleagues. Any chance for approaching her that time. Most probably that will be my last time meeting her. But I will always keep my hopes high!
AoristTenseParticipantFebruary 26, 2018 at 10:23 pm #166490
Business relationships are generally taboo. It is hard to say whether or not it would be a good idea to talk to her. I would say that if it continues, you could ask her to coffee or something and if she says no, then at least you know that it is pointless to pursue her any further.
Richy RichParticipantFebruary 28, 2018 at 2:37 pm #166608
When you next see her, approach her, start chatting and say “So and so bar in town is great…..we should gp”…..and see what she says
edward124ParticipantMarch 2, 2018 at 2:13 am #166684
ask her out , if she likes it and you guys click , she’ll ask for more of these ‘dates’
rosezeeParticipantMarch 2, 2018 at 2:43 am #166685
You both see each other all the time if you’re coworkers but take the time to make your interactions more meaningful. A 3 year age difference isn’t that big of a deal if the buy seems mature enough to hold a good conversation and you both get along well.
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