Help, Zero confidence in myself and need advice


Help, Zero confidence in myself and need advice

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    February 4, 2016 at 5:35 pm #92960
    Help, Zero confidence in myself and need advice


    about me, I’m not good looking at all, have zero self confidence in myself with dating, and weigh 17st 10, so im quite large. 23

    about her, amazing, good looking, blonde, tough personality, 19, goes for the older guy.

    My problem. Shes with a complete *******. Who has previously threatened to beat her up, she often goes for the rough types. not a clue why, shes going to dump him, so her being in a relationship is not the issue, but me being me, shes never going to go for me. She told a friend of mine that she finds me sweet, why do I feel thats not a good sign.

    How the hell do I approach this. I’m crazy about her, but I really don’t think she feels the same, and im terrible at asking people out. Only good part is I have not been ‘friendzoned’ just yet, but it seems for me its inevitable.



    Please god help

    February 6, 2016 at 2:31 pm #93070

    Sounds like a dumb blonde to me if she’s with a guy like that. Think more about yourself than her and work on improving your own confidence and physique.