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TheB

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May 15, 2015 at 2:50 am #79051

Here's a question.

Is it a good idea to ask a female if they have a boyfriend as the first question or just jump to the point want to go on a date?

vehi

Participant

May 15, 2015 at 9:49 am #79061

I wouldn’t ask that firstly, but maybe when you’ve gotten into a conversation. However, if this is super important to you, just ask it and explain that it is important.

chrisinindy

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May 18, 2015 at 9:23 am #79145

I’m not sure it matters either way. The point is you want to go out with her and you need to find out if she’s interested. Talk to her. Have a conversation. Then simply ask something like – Do you want to go out sometime? Or tell her you’d like to see a movie and ask if she’s seen it. If she has a boyfriend she’ll tell you. If not, you’ll get an answer to your question and can go from there.

someonehere

Participant

May 19, 2015 at 12:44 pm #79287

I wouldn’t just ask it up front, I would at least be engaged in a conversation first and then mention if she was seeing somebody.

AJ1985

Participant

May 20, 2015 at 7:01 am #79372

I agree not asking upfront. Definitely get into conversation with and see what’s she’s into. Then maybe see if she wants to go out for coffee and see her response

Manny123

Participant

May 23, 2015 at 6:26 pm #79674

I agree.

rjz075

Participant

May 25, 2015 at 9:55 am #79695

Ask upfront. No need to be a homewrecker

WTF

Participant

May 26, 2015 at 11:20 pm #79753

Not directly, but maybe by asking “Are you free to go out sometime?”
If she says yes, then leave it at that until the date. You’ll have time to discuss it then.

JonathanG

Participant

May 28, 2015 at 8:32 am #79769

Its not that important what you say, but how you say it. As long as you say it with confident and in a flirting and fun way, she will love it. Even if she does have a boyfriend.

Nurea

Participant

May 28, 2015 at 7:24 pm #79877

Reply To: Here's a question.

If you don’t have the confidence to pull it off, then she can “smell” it right away. Your chance with her will be shot. What is often best, in my opinion, is to build a good friendship with her first. Then start joking around and you may get your answer that way.

lisetta

Participant

May 31, 2015 at 8:50 pm #79929

Reply To: Here's a question.

Yes be confident is a must and ask her out the worst that she can’t do is say no but she will still be thinking about you wondering if she made the right choice

lisetta

Participant

May 31, 2015 at 8:53 pm #79930

Reply To: Here's a question.

No don’t became friends that is a terrible advice if she likes you she will give you the vibe that she do so if that should be good enough for you to ask her out please to all the man out there if you really like someone have some balls and ask her out is non to b afraid of.

qranubis

Participant

June 1, 2015 at 5:43 pm #79957

Reply To: Here's a question.

I dunno. Not the first question at least, talk a bit before jumping into that. Or even asking her to hang out sometime and discussing it on/after the day you guys were together.