He's changed, what should I do?


He's changed, what should I do?

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    May 4, 2018 at 6:40 am #172156
    He's changed, what should I do?

    I met this guy on Tinder. We live in the same city but have both been away from the city for a few months so we haven’t been able to meet yet. We get on VERY well so we agreed that we’d both like to keep talking, and go on a date when we’re home. I’m back in the city now and he’s back in a month.

    He works LONG days and he sleeps at weird hours. So every day I would leave it to him to message me first. I didn’t want to message him while he’s really busy or sleeping and end up waking him up. After month or 2 he brought that up to me. He felt like he was the one showing all of the interest in talking. I apologised and promised that’d change. Now it’s suddenly flipped. I’m the one always messaging first. In fact, I’ve left it almost a month since he left my last message on read and I’ve heard nothing from him at all! Which feels strange considering how we were talking all day, every day.

    I don’t know what to do. Do I reach out and ask what’s going on somehow? Or let him come to me?