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carolineroberts512ParticipantJanuary 26, 2018 at 10:33 am #163506
I met a guy online and we’ve been talking for about 4 months now. We would fall asleep on the phone together talking for hours, & we’ve been out on many dates. After talking for about a month we decided to exclusively talk, so we both deleted our online dating profiles (POF). Recently he has grown very cold and stated that he is not going to wait around forever for me to get my s*** together. I have acted immature and irrational at times… here’s the kicker: he set his online profile back up and is now talking to other women… WHILE ON THE PHONE WITH ME. He does it every morning and every evening. When I confronted him about it he said that I have an online profile set up too so basically he was justifying himself, and he mentioned again that he wasn’t waiting around forever for me to come around. The problem is is that I’ve started working on myself but he just does not want to acknowledge that fact… I think he’s just using it as an excuse to stay online now.
anonymousgirl1000ParticipantJanuary 29, 2018 at 8:59 am #163549
The truth of the matter is that he was going to be online whether you had yourself together or not. If he was truly committed to you, he would have helped you get on track, so that you can grow together.It is true that you can’t be with someone until you have yourself together, but at the same time, a man who has himself wouldn’t entertain a woman who doesn’t. Just drop him. He’s my worth your time.
SlevenParticipantJanuary 29, 2018 at 2:19 pm #163737
He has moved on…and you should too. This is one you aren’t going to get back. Move forward and find someone that is right for you.
truthordareParticipantJanuary 29, 2018 at 7:25 pm #163782
It’s hard to say this but it appears he doesn’t respect you so I think you should come right out and ask him what his intentions are.
ebs1993ParticipantFebruary 4, 2018 at 10:54 pm #164455
I’m going to say he is just not interested in you anymore. If a guy truly likes you, he will spend all his energy on getting you hooked for the long haul rather than keep searching online for other women.
AnonymousFebruary 5, 2018 at 11:30 am #164513
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