How do I flirt vs. just talk with her?


How do I flirt vs. just talk with her?

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    April 11, 2014 at 12:20 pm #50973
    How do I flirt vs. just talk with her?

    There’s a girl I’ve been playing tennis with and when we rest we sit and talk. At first it was 95% tennis, 5% talking, but now it’s more like 65% tennis, 35% talking. She does the vast majority of the talking.

    The thing is I’m sitting right next to her, making eye contact, nodding and I wish I knew how to flirt. I’ve heard I should playfully touch her or just reach and touch her elbow or something. When in the conversation should I try to do this? I don’t want to come across like a creep reaching out and touching her.

    Also, I met her for breakfast before tennis one time and didn’t contact her for while after. She told me she missed our breakfast before tennis. Since then I’ve invited her to dinner after playing, but she said she’s so busy she doesn’t have time and even fell asleep at work. Since she’ll play tennis/talk with me every week is it worth risking out her out to something else?