How do I know if I'm settling?


How do I know if I'm settling?

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    August 5, 2013 at 1:17 pm #36532
    How do I know if I'm settling?

    I have been with a guy, lets call him Joe, since last October. We have been pretty happy ever since. The problem is that I am in college and Joe is only the third person I have been in a relationship with and I feel us hearing serious and I am scared. I am afraid that I haven’t dated sounds enough and might be missing out. Isn’t colleges the time to figure stuff out and date around? I liked Joe a lot but wonder if I am still with him just because I have become comfortable. He is a great guy and I really care for him. On one hand, it seems dumb to ditch a guy I care about and who realky cares about me just besides I haven’t dated a certain number of guys or just want to have fun. On the others hand, I don’t want to settle and later wish I hadn’t misses out on college guys. Help!

    September 19, 2013 at 2:21 pm #39299

    Best thing to do is be honest and talk with him about your concerns. If he’s a good guy he’ll hear you out. Maybe he feels the same way. Maybe you will find a deeper connection by talking so honestly with each other. Best coarse of action is to always be honest.