How do I know if she likes me? Should I ask her out?


How do I know if she likes me? Should I ask her out?

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    November 28, 2012 at 9:47 pm #17492
    How do I know if she likes me? Should I ask her out?

    Hey guys/girls! I’ve really liked this girl recently, and I really want to ask her out. But I don’t know if she likes me. We don’t really know each other that well. We only have 2 classes together, and we don’t really talk much. I sit across from her in one class, and sometimes I’ll be looking at her and she looks at me back with a blank expression. I’m always the first one to look away so I don’t really know what she does afterwards. I always see her hanging around with this other girl who i know pretty well and i’m friends with her. The girl I like is also friends with one of my friends ( who is actually dating her close friend). But I really don’t know what to do. I find it hard to talk to her, and bring up conversation. And I don’t even know if she likes me. Should I just go up and ask her out? I’d really like some advice on what I should do to either know if she’s interested, or what I should do to get her to like me. Any help would be great! From both guys and girls!

    November 29, 2012 at 3:04 pm #17676

    (guys POV) Hmm, try asking the guy you know (who’s dating your crush’s friend) to set up a group date. No sure how old you are but if you can go out for drinks or even a school sporting event, you can socialize with her outside the classroom boundaries.

    just my 2 cents…

    November 30, 2012 at 12:29 am #17717

    I’d say just start chatting her up. If you can get her to laugh than that would be great! Keep the conversation going well, and don’t let it get awkward. Before hand you should try to have a list of things that you can bring up if the conversation ever dulls down. That way the conversation will always be going.

    If all goes well, you could perhaps just say something like, “you know we should probably hang out some time soon.” If she’s somewhat interested then you’re fair game, and if she’s not interested it won’t be awkward or anything. Just my two cents.

    December 5, 2012 at 4:36 pm #18268

    I like what Brian12 said. How do you know if you really like her unless you’ve never even talked to her? You might find that she is not that interesting and doesn’t talk with you very well….you might find that you don’t like the tone of her voice, or maybe she stinks or maybe she has a funny laugh! I know I’m being a bit silly, but you would be surprised how many crushes people have just from looking at someone and then the first conversation happens and something just doesn’t fit.

    Don’t ask her out first….talk to her first and let a connection develop as friends first….then when there is some comfort and you know for sure that you still like her and want to know her more, go for it.