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[vvmackvv]

June 4, 2014 at 3:37 am #54405

how do i tell her?

hi, needs some advice here, im 28 and i dont drive, there’s this one girl that i really like and i dont know how to tell her, we both work for the same company but she works at a different store.. we have similar interests. we did hang out one time at a beer fest with another friend, went to a concert with friends ( i was with my friends and she was with her’s,we just met for a lil bit ). we sometimes txt each other but its mostly upcoming events that we should go and sometimes i just invite her.. i also sends her morning txts ( quotes ) at least 2 or 3 times a week, and she would reply to me( i think she likes it )..idk, maybe she just see’s me as a friend? what should i changed on my game or work on ? how do i tell her that i like her? i dont want things to get awkward with her.. and next year we’re planning to go together with her friends to do concert again..is that a good sign ?

[Anonymous]

June 4, 2014 at 9:15 am #54410

It could be a good sign that you are going to meet again, but the most important thing to do is have the courage to tell her that you are interested in her and that you like her. I know you should be nervous, but remember that you wouldn’t be able to get answers if you don’t ask questions.

[Aperture]

June 4, 2014 at 11:59 am #54417

Coming from a girls perspective, I think she looks at you as a friend. If all she’s doing is texting you about upcoming events and not about hanging out with you outside of those events, I wouldn’t get your hopes up. How about giving her a call and saying, “hey, would you like to do [insert something fun]?” Get her away from her friends and spend some one-on-one time together.

[vvmackvv]

June 4, 2014 at 10:26 pm #54499

Aperture wrote:

Coming from a girls perspective, I think she looks at you as a friend. If all she’s doing is texting you about upcoming events and not about hanging out with you outside of those events, I wouldn’t get your hopes up. How about giving her a call and saying, “hey, would you like to do [insert something fun]?” Get her away from her friends and spend some one-on-one time together.

i see, we both like beers and i going on a trip in august to portland, do you think i should invite her?.. last time i went on a trip i told her about it and invited her, but she was moving somewhere and applied for a position so she wasnt sure and didnt give me an answer.. should i ask her again this time?

[daniel]

June 5, 2014 at 7:48 am #54516

I’m not very experienced, so take this with a grain of salt maybe, but it seems that a trip to another city might be a bit too big if you’ve never done anything alone with her before.

[tanglelau]

June 6, 2014 at 2:19 am #54653

drink some and be brave to tell her

[Jennifer]

June 7, 2014 at 11:54 am #54734

Don’t be timid, girls hate that. In fact, that will make her think of you as ‘friend’ material – not ‘boyfriend’ material. Just be up front about it. If she rejects you, you can say whatever to smooth it over and still be her friend. There’s nothing girls like more than guys who admire them, as long as you’re not creepy. Go for it!

[yoman12]

June 8, 2014 at 4:26 pm #54757

ever heard of the famous quote : “just do iiiit” ?

[aura969]

June 10, 2014 at 10:49 am #54935

You need to see her in a different environment, without any of your friends or hers. See how she relates to you when there are just the two of you. And also you have to be courageous enough to ask her out or show her in any possible way that you like her in a romantic way. She probably didn’t get the idea of how much you like her. You can also try and talk to an astrologer about the compatibility between you two and what possible challenges may appear ahead.

[holyfruitbat]

June 10, 2014 at 9:07 pm #55042

Reply To: how do i tell her?

Try asking her out, or switching up your routine and not texting her good morning, but maybe text like mid afternoon one day. Drop a hint about a movie you’re excited to see, and see if she’d like to go with you. The worst shell say is no.

[And1S]

June 14, 2014 at 4:05 pm #55357

Reply To: how do i tell her?

Like others have said, try switching up your routine to see if she notices. Invite her out casually to something where it will just be the two of you instead of an event with other friends of yours

[likemundeen]

June 15, 2014 at 2:19 pm #55373

Reply To: how do i tell her?

if you don’t tell her you’ll regret it later, trust me.

[Jarod Oner]

June 17, 2014 at 2:41 pm #55444

Reply To: how do i tell her?

One thing I always tell my friends, is to never text a girl you like without flirting. If there’s no flirting or banter, then you’ll end up in the friend-zone real quick.

You’re basically texting her like all her other friends and guys she’s interested in do… so to stand out and put yourself into a different category… FLIRT!

Also… get her out one on one, sir.

[Marcello]

June 18, 2014 at 8:45 am #55489

Reply To: how do i tell her?

Yes, you need to escalate attraction a lot quicker or else you’re going to bury yourself and some other guy will snatch her from her feet.

If you want to become more intimate, start treating her like she’s your potential lover.