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[IloveCatsParticipant]

September 22, 2019 at 1:25 pm #207355

How do meet guys off dating g sites safely?

And if you’re not smart enough.

[IntergenerationalParticipant]

September 23, 2019 at 6:29 pm #207412

You want to be reasonably sure this person is who he says he is (can his existence be verified apart from the site in any way?); you should be able to have several in depth conversations to get a feel for how it might be in person. You would like to initially meet in a large public place during the day (malls work great for this purpose). You want to be alert to signs of possessive behavior, short temper, impatience, excessive drinking, etc. Just try to get a general sense of demeanor. A few additional meetings of such arrangement would be advisable before moving on to more unique, intimate settings.

[jonesnat044Participant]

September 26, 2019 at 9:18 am #207571

I think it`s not answer. You need to chech potential guy in social networks, before you will go

[franktParticipant]

September 29, 2019 at 11:27 am #207706

I suggest meeting up in a public place (restaurant, coffee shop, diner). No to a park. I would not meet up at his house, your house, his friends’ house, or your friends’ house.

Find out if he will talk to you on the site 1st. Then, later arrange a meet up and the exchange of numbers.

I had a guy who was not interested in talking on the site. His 1st question was for my phone number. I blocked him on the site.

[Single1983Participant]

September 29, 2019 at 11:44 am #207707

That’s easy:
1) Look at the pictures. If they look fake or gotten off the internet, RUN! No serial killer is going to use his real picture. There should be several photos that look authentic.

2) Look for signs of an actual personality. If the profile just seems way too politically correct, it’s probably fake.

3) He’s waaaaaaay out of your league! If the guy looks like a male model, six pack and all, it’s fake. Let’s face it, if you were getting THOSE guys, you wouldn’t be here.

4) Finally, meet in a public place. Psychos don’t have much patience. If you’ve had only one date and he’s already wanting to bring you back to his place, that’s weird. Get out.

5) *edit* Also, ask why he’s using online dating. If he doesn’t give an answer that makes total sense, get out.

Hope this helps!

• This reply was modified 2 weeks, 4 days ago by  Single1983.

[Henious88Participant]

October 6, 2019 at 12:15 am #222986

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[JohnnParticipant]

October 6, 2019 at 1:33 pm #222992

Firstly you should find out more about each other in any case, we knew each other for one month before we started dating

[SoloHinParticipant]

October 7, 2019 at 7:38 am #222998

thank you !

[JimTheBigOneParticipant]

October 8, 2019 at 7:00 am #223052

Just speak with him more, ask all kinds of questions about him and if you like the answers and they won’t seem suspicious to you and go out! 🙂 good luck!

[barismmParticipant]

October 15, 2019 at 8:25 am #223368

Reply To: How do meet guys off dating g sites safely?

IloveCats wrote:

How do meet guys off dating g sites safely?
And if you’re not smart enough.

First of all: check his web-page completely, I mean you have to look at his photo and understand if he really person or fake. If it a second way – move on.
Secondly: ask him to take a photo at this moment and send it to you. If he can’t – move on, 99% he isn’t interested in you.
Thirdly: ask him to record a voice message and send it to you. After that, you could make a conclusion about him like in the previous point.

[barismmParticipant]

October 15, 2019 at 8:25 am #223369

Reply To: How do meet guys off dating g sites safely?

First of all: check his web-page completely, I mean you have to look at his photo and understand if he really person or fake. If it a second way – move on.
Secondly: ask him to take a photo at this moment and send it to you. If he can’t – move on, 99% he isn’t interested in you.
Thirdly: ask him to record a voice message and send it to you. After that, you could make a conclusion about him like in the previous point.

[SynergiaParticipant]

October 16, 2019 at 8:43 am #223519

Reply To: How do meet guys off dating g sites safely?

If you’re unattractive, you won’t get any guy no matter if it’s on dating sites or real life.

[IloveCatsParticipant]

October 16, 2019 at 3:43 pm #223570

Reply To: How do meet guys off dating g sites safely?

I see other girls who are unattractive who still get guys.