How does it it work when you look at it from the other perspective?

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How does it it work when you look at it from the other perspective?

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    H8SocietyReality217
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    February 7, 2018 at 6:18 am #164792
    How does it it work when you look at it from the other perspective?

    This is how I see it, it’s only guys, men, who need to be the ones to learn how to get a date, how to get a girlfriend, etc., Because simply put, how does a girl need to learn how to get a date or get a boyfriend when she doesn’t have to make any moves, she doesn’t have to do the approaching, asking out, planning and setting up all the dates, being the one to bring up exclusivity, she doesn’t have to lead the interaction, etc. Overall, she doesn’t have to initiate or escalate anything, she doesn’t have to be the one that “goes for what she wants”.

    So simply put, what type of skills does a woman need in the courtship process or just dating process? because typically, the way you learn in life, is by “doing”, putting into practice, and since the woman is not taking any social actions on her part other than just doing make-up, dressing up, doing her nails, getting in shape, etc., How does a woman need to learn when she doesn’t have to approach and ask men out?

    H8SocietyReality217
    H8SocietyReality217
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    February 13, 2018 at 6:10 pm #165505

    i’m gonna guess, maybe women only need to know how to keep a guy once they are already in a relationship? but they don’t necessarily need to know how to get a guy right?

    Jake_noob98
    Jake_noob98
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    February 17, 2018 at 6:56 pm #165798

    I feel like some women also pursue relationships if they like a guy :p

    H8SocietyReality217
    H8SocietyReality217
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    February 23, 2018 at 12:50 pm #166332

    that obviously almost never happens.