How should i try talking to her again?

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How should i try talking to her again?

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    MarcusWilson11
    MarcusWilson11
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    March 7, 2018 at 6:40 pm #167012
    How should i try talking to her again?

    there’s a girl i would see around school last year. I wanted to talk to her, but i had no balls and didn’t actually know how to talk to a girl i was crushing on back then.
    So all that i would do is look at her in the hallways and stuff. she caught on cause she started reversing it, being the one who would stare at me and all that.
    I asked her out one day. It came out of nowhere, and I was awkward about it. We had never even talked before. She told me she has a boyfriend (i found out later this was a lie) and thats how we left off.
    The weird thing was, after I asked her, I would see her staring at me all the time. I guess i think maybe she panicked or was shy and just fell back to the boyfriend excuse. Tbh, i was weird about it and came on way too strong.
    Fast forward to this year I moved on and liked someone else for a while, but it isn’t going to work out with her. I think enough time has passed to give it anlther shot but im not sure how.

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    MarcusWilson11
    MarcusWilson11
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    March 7, 2018 at 6:41 pm #167013

    Weve talked once or twice in a group setting this year, and everything has been normal between us. Every now and then I still see her sneaking a look at me or something.
    Im a good looking, popular senior guy. she’s a beautiful, popular sophmore girl.
    Were pretty alike. We both really enjoy art and drawing and we both run track & have the same fun personality.
    I was going to just approach her one day, make some joke about how she probably thought i was crazy, tell her she’s beautiful and I want to “start over” and get to know her. Hopefully get her number or Snapchat
    Another option would he just to start talking to her and build a friendship once spring track starts again in March. I was also recently friendzoned by a friend of hers (even tho she liked me first) so i was thinking of asking her about this girl i want to talk to So is it worth a shot to approach her again and how should i go about it? My only problems is not knowing how to approach her.

    MarcusWilson11
    MarcusWilson11
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    March 7, 2018 at 6:42 pm #167014

    I have really improved myself as a guy since last year (more popular, more fun, dress nicer, actually able to talk to girls now) and i want to give this another shot.
    Im talking to other girls too but i want to do this because i have nothing to lose. I just dont know how to give myself the best possible shot. So is this worth it and how should i do it?

    And thanks for actually reading all of this if you did !