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StarkeyParticipantMarch 16, 2018 at 9:33 pm #167621
So, I have kind of a fetish for very overweight girls. I’m not into stuff like weight gain or feeding, and I find slim girls attractive too, but for some reason big bellies and rolls of fat on a girl turn me on the most. Please don’t judge.
I get the train to work. A couple of months ago, a really huge girl started getting the same train as me every day. I’d guess she’s about 20 and something like 150-160kg (about 330-350lbs). Sometimes she’s on her own, and sometimes she’s with a few female friends. She’s the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen and I’ve developed a serious crush and can’t stop thinking about her.
I’m 23 and have had two previous relationships, both with slim girls, and I’ve never really met any very big girls, so this never came up before. I really want to talk to her and ask her out, but I’m worried I might come across as a creep, because won’t it be obvious that I’m asking her out because I’m attracted to her weight? Do big girls find this okay?
heerParticipantMarch 17, 2018 at 7:57 am #167627
Just ask her out as you would a slim girl, don’t obsess over her weight when you do or even on the first date. She might her self image issues which might trigger negative reactions.
ms46945ParticipantMarch 18, 2018 at 12:28 pm #167653
Just ask her out , that’s the only way to do it
invisiblerParticipantMarch 25, 2018 at 3:51 pm #168346
I don’t see how does she being overweight change anything. The thing is that, if you really like her, you have to approach her. Hope it all ends well 🙂
anonymouspsyParticipantMarch 31, 2018 at 1:32 pm #169232
You don’t need to think much about it before hand.
AnonymousApril 1, 2018 at 1:50 am #169238
Just ask her. Some guys ask out women because they are attracted to them
angellmiaParticipantApril 2, 2018 at 4:07 pm #169365
ask her out like you would with any other girl. what makes this occasion different?
Sammy1989ParticipantApril 2, 2018 at 5:34 pm #169371
Nothing is really different about her unless you make it that way, ask her out like u would any other girl
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