How to ask out this guy?

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How to ask out this guy?

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    vtrandafir
    vtrandafir
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    February 2, 2018 at 1:23 am #164318
    How to ask out this guy?

    So there’s this guy that I have a thing for in my group of friends. I want to ask him out but I’m pretty sure he’s not at all into me and I think I’m not his type (nevertheless I have hope). I’m also worried that if I ask him out and he says no or he says yes but it ends up not working out and there will be tension among our friends. I also know that if it doesn’t go well, they’ll definitely take his side. I just want to know if I should ask him and, if so, how should I do it cuz, as embarrassing as it is, I’ve never had to ask anyone out on a date. Thanks!

    Lola
    Lola
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    February 2, 2018 at 8:55 am #164347

    Why do you want to ask him out, if you think he is not into you? You need to be more “sure” how he feels about you before you ask him out, otherwise you will just put yourself in a stupid position….

    floor
    floor
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    February 5, 2018 at 8:43 am #164428

    Is there a way you can ask one of your buddies to probe the information out of him to see if he’s into you? They can do it really non-chalant and playful. It should be easy.

    krome
    krome
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    February 5, 2018 at 11:25 am #164508

    look for hints if he’s into you. depending on his personality you can tell if he’s into you just by the way he talks to you or looks at you. if he’s the shy quiet type then it’s a bit tricky to see. it’s not really easy because you’re pretty much flipping a coin if you’re asking him out on a whim because maybe you don’t ask him out and years later you find out he actually had a thing for you, or maybe you do ask him out and your speculations were true, he really wasn’t into you.
    hint
    but i would suggest finding hints if he likes you first before making a move.

    H8SocietyReality217
    H8SocietyReality217
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    February 6, 2018 at 7:11 am #164576

    quite shocked since almost all women are stubborn, adamant about refusing to ask a guy out first even if they have a strong desire for him

    robbyb24
    robbyb24
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    February 6, 2018 at 1:22 pm #164688

    Are you friends on Facebook yet? Add him, and try to initiate small talk. If he responds and is willing to sustain a conversation, then he’s into you I’d say. If not, then probably not, sadly…