How to know if you're in the right relationship

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How to know if you're in the right relationship

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    jackkilt
    jackkilt
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    December 27, 2017 at 9:09 pm #161064
    How to know if you're in the right relationship

    I am in a relationship of just over 12 months, i am 20 and with a girl who is 19. She cares about me lots and we have a good relationship and great sex. However i have a few things about our relationship that gives me doubts…

    – She can be quite controlling and has a really tight ‘lead on me’.
    – I often will get a lot of grief from her about me not texting her back quickly.
    – She just feels too insecure no matter how much i reassure her.

    I think all of this is because she has issue’s from previously relationships that she’s told me about. And I always help her anyway i can, am i a bad boyfriend that im getting a bit fed up of it?
    Especially considering i am held to a different standard she is, as im not allowed friends that are girls but she has loads of guys she works with and has to chat to because of ‘work’.

    carpenter.j1990
    carpenter.j1990
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    December 28, 2017 at 1:04 pm #161072

    listen to your heart but follow your mind

    Craig.park2@gmail.com
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    January 3, 2018 at 9:27 pm #161463

    Feels like she’s projecting a lot of insecurities on you. It can work out but it’s going to take a lot of effort. If I were you, I’d determine whether the headache of jumping through her hoops is worth it. Most of the time it’s probably a no but occasionally there will be a person that you will decide is worth it.

    I suggest to grind through until you decide to tap out.

    JACK-1989
    JACK-1989
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    January 4, 2018 at 6:00 am #161472

    My day begin with women.. Yes, its relationship..

    Djsouthboi79
    Djsouthboi79
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    January 5, 2018 at 8:54 am #161655

    If it stresses you out then, for sure, you are not in the right relationship!

    Brad556
    Brad556
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    January 7, 2018 at 8:18 pm #161779

    Insecurity is the death knell of a good relationship – work on it with her to assure her there are no reasons for her to feel insecure – or – better yet – she needs to go see a counselor to work through it. Possessive , jealous and insecure people will suck the life blood out of you.

    wsonck2017
    wsonck2017
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    January 12, 2018 at 8:25 am #162296

    Ask yourself this: could I live with this “flaws”for the rest of my life? You’ll have to feel whether you go through with her or not.