How to proceed

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How to proceed

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    ramtin
    ramtin
    Participant
    November 14, 2018 at 5:07 am #189310
    How to proceed

    so there is this girl I like and I think she likes me but I don’t know how to proceed ( I’m kinda dumb in these situations)

    let’s start at the begging

    in the first week of the university the professor choose me as a group head( i am supposed to help my

    group members with their project, homework, etc) and after 2 weeks had passed a couple of new students

    enrolled in my major(she was one of them). and at her first lesson, she asked me about group heads after I

    explained it to her and told her who the group heads are she said can I join your group without hesitation.

    so after that, I set a one on one meeting with her to help her catch up with the rest of the class. things went

    well and once the class was over I asked her why did she choose this major she said it was her parents

    choice, but she wanted to enroll in animation. I am passionate about art as well and we had a nice long

    ramtin
    ramtin
    Participant
    November 14, 2018 at 5:08 am #189311

    the rest is here

    25min) conversation about art. and we exchanged contacts (Instagram, I had her phone number since I

    was her group head). its been about a week and every day we send each other art related posts.

    now my question is how do I proceed if I want to make things more personal? lead the conversation of art

    and towards more personal thing and beyond

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    November 22, 2018 at 6:29 pm #189710

    Ask her out to lunch or dinner and see where things go.
    During the date flirt with her and see if she flirts back.
    Ask her questions about her favorite this or that and in the end go for a good-bye kiss.
    This is based upon whether or not there was lots flirty banter, laughter, eye contact, and genuine rapport established.

    If there is no real chemistry, no smiling/laughter, and the conversation was like pulling teeth she’s not into you.
    In order to make things “personal” with someone you have get personal with them.

    Best wishes!

    mscara
    mscara
    Participant
    November 22, 2018 at 6:54 pm #189713

    Invite her out to an art showing or gallery, something that it particularly special to her, it will let her know you listen and care about what she cares about.