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What are you waiting for? One mouse click could be all that stands between you and your next romance!May 4, 2015 at 12:08 pm #78378
Ok so I have no idea what women want. Every time it doesn’t work out, I have no idea why.
Here is what I think I have going for me:
Established in my career, financially stable, highly intelligent, tip top physical condition (run 4 min mile, bench over 400 lbs, etc)
Going against me:
Asperger syndrome and PTSD – I have a hard time connecting to people, understanding any sort of dynamic of any social situation, this my whole life has lead to me being bullied, mistreated and abused until I snapped. I found myself in all sorts of trouble and joined the Army to take my rage out on the world and make someone else feel my pain. I probably had PTSD before the Army but it definitely is worse now.
Being 29 and doubt I’ve ever been loved by anyone in my life, I’ve faked relationships in the past but really couldn’t get very far
Being an Atheist – a lot of women want nothing to do with someone who doesn’t believe in god.May 4, 2015 at 12:19 pm #78379
being boring – I can’t fake interests and my only hobbies are photography, working out, martial arts, mountain climbing, can’t meet people with similar interests
being intimidating – I try not to intimidate ANYONE but any time I go on a blind date, they meet me, all the sudden they’re terrified, all I did was show up and try to be nice
being introverted and unable to hold a conversation with a large group of people
dislike of clubs with loud music – i can’t meet anyone when I’m yelling all day, makes my ears ring, etc
not comfortable approaching strangers and not being approachable myself
don’t understand chemistry since I never experienced it
no familyMay 4, 2015 at 12:29 pm #78382
I have resorted to online dating for the past 3 years. Before that, I only had 2 dates in my life. Online, I have had maybe 100 dates by now. I have had a few girlfriends but failed to develop any feelings for them and broke it off when I realized this.
I am not looking for people to feel sorry for me, I am only stating my situation the way I see it. However, any advice on how I could improve my situation would be greatly appreciated. I’ll never give up and give in to despair but I would like to have more success than I am having.
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