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    December 12, 2017 at 6:20 pm #159905

    So I have been with this girl for about two years now. We started as best friends and developed in to a relationship. Lately I have been feeling like there is something wrong with our relationship. We are both stressed with working and trying to keep a roof over our heads. She is amazing and she does the majority of the cooking. I clean, do the laundry, and the dishes though. Every time I go to say how I am feeling, that I feel forgotten about all she does is spin it around and make it about her though. I feel almost as if the romance is gone and I don’t know how to bring it back. I find myself wanting attention because I feel I don’t get enough and I hate that feeling. I try to do small things for her, like buy her cheap rings, surprise her with flowers, and make things for her but it has been a long time that she has done anything like that for me. I wish she would just surprise me with something, I miss those tiny little surprises and excitement. What can I do to solve this?

    December 12, 2017 at 7:43 pm #159907

    You need to sit her down a have a serious conversation with her, don’t make it about you and don’t let her make it about her. It need to be about the both of you. No communcating will brake you relationship down even further, try doing a date night with her and the two of you talk before you or her do something you are going to regret later.

    • This reply was modified 6 months, 1 week ago by  tbella.

    February 28, 2018 at 9:01 am #166544

    She should respect your feelings and you should sit down and talk to her about this. She should take responsibility in the relationship and be able to put in as much effort as you do.