Hurting

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Hurting

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    Meglynn90
    Meglynn90
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    December 12, 2017 at 6:20 pm #159905
    Hurting

    So I have been with this girl for about two years now. We started as best friends and developed in to a relationship. Lately I have been feeling like there is something wrong with our relationship. We are both stressed with working and trying to keep a roof over our heads. She is amazing and she does the majority of the cooking. I clean, do the laundry, and the dishes though. Every time I go to say how I am feeling, that I feel forgotten about all she does is spin it around and make it about her though. I feel almost as if the romance is gone and I don’t know how to bring it back. I find myself wanting attention because I feel I don’t get enough and I hate that feeling. I try to do small things for her, like buy her cheap rings, surprise her with flowers, and make things for her but it has been a long time that she has done anything like that for me. I wish she would just surprise me with something, I miss those tiny little surprises and excitement. What can I do to solve this?

    tbella
    tbella
    Participant
    December 12, 2017 at 7:43 pm #159907

    You need to sit her down a have a serious conversation with her, don’t make it about you and don’t let her make it about her. It need to be about the both of you. No communcating will brake you relationship down even further, try doing a date night with her and the two of you talk before you or her do something you are going to regret later.

    • This reply was modified 12 months ago by tbella tbella.
    TK1265
    TK1265
    Participant
    February 28, 2018 at 9:01 am #166544

    Hi,
    She should respect your feelings and you should sit down and talk to her about this. She should take responsibility in the relationship and be able to put in as much effort as you do.

    catch34
    catch34
    Participant
    July 10, 2018 at 8:41 pm #178945

    I think it is incredibly important for you both to sit down, have a chat and remember why and what made you fall in love to begin with. Couples these days get so caught up in everyday life that they forget WHO they share life with. Hopefully a good chat, maybe some necessary tears and a good bottle of wine will get things moving in the right direction. Good luck!