I can't build the courage to message her

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I can't build the courage to message her

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    michael blaney
    michael blaney
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    December 15, 2018 at 4:19 pm #191129
    I can't build the courage to message her

    There’s this girl who I am really into. We seem to get on really well and there is definetly a ‘spark’ between us, we get on pretty well when I see her at a lot of the social things that I go to at uni, there is always a lot of flirting when we talk as well. However, I have not got the courage to message her, I was messaging one of her good friends not that long ago and I think it would be really awkward between us if I startd to message her now. we both have gone home now for uni and won’t see each other until after christmas. I would really like to do something with this girl but haven’t got the courage haha. We haven’t really spoken that much but I am nearly certain that she likes me

    Any advice on what I should do?

    L8412
    L8412
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    December 17, 2018 at 1:35 am #191132

    Well, you totally should message her. Girls talk mate. There are very good chances her friend told her you were messaging her or that she told her friend you two were flirting. Breaking the ice is always the toughest part. Go ahead and do it. If it works, great! If it doesn’t, well at least you’ll know and you’ll be able to stop troubling yourself with it and move on to other things.

    Fuark
    Fuark
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    December 18, 2018 at 8:47 am #191235

    Just text her and ask for a date!

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    December 19, 2018 at 9:43 pm #191438

    Lets review some key statements you made.

    “I can’t build the courage to message her”
    “We seem to get on really well and there is definetly a ‘spark’ between us…”
    “I am nearly certain that she likes me..”

    If those last two statements are close to being true it shouldn’t take “courage” to ask her out.
    Worse case scenario is she turns you down. Trust me your life will go on if that happens.
    However if she says “yes” it could be the start of something wonderful.

    If it’s not worth asking for it’s not worth having.
    Nothing ventured nothing gained.

    In a world with over 7 Billion people rejection just means: Next!
    Best wishes!