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jacksonConParticipantMarch 18, 2014 at 10:23 pm #49442
Ok, so here’s the deal, I’m in high school and was at a basketball game a few months ago. I’m thinking this is a bad game and not really watching. So I look around and see one of my crushes. So I’m looking at her, then next to her is another girl I’ve never seen before. She is also, quite attractive. She looks at me, Bam, eye contact. Happens a few times then I go home. Time passes and I see her a few times in the hall. Then I decide I’m going to talk to her. So I find her and see she’s listening to some music. I ask her what she’s listening to and she says Nickleback. One of my favorite bands. So we get talking and she likes a lot of what I do. So time for class and I leave. I forgot to ask for her number, so I just write mine down and pop it in her locker. Now she texts me later and we get talking then I call her a few nights later and we talked until like 4am. I find out that the girl I’ve had a crush on for years thinks I’m really cute and nice and all kinds of good stuff.
jacksonConParticipantMarch 18, 2014 at 10:29 pm #49443
Now this is an odd position. I cant decide.
Girl I talked to all night: Have a lot in common, She’s funny, attractive, friendly, and very understanding. Yes she does like me. and she knows about how I have a crush on this other girl. She’s supportive in me deciding. (yes weird)
Girl I had a crush on: I don’t know, never really talked to her. From what I hear she’s friendly, funny, very cute, outgoing, worries about things sometimes and can be sensitive.
I am very laid back, casual, friends with everyone, very musically inclined, and love to travel.
Here’s the problem. These two girls are best friends.
Please drop any Ideas you might have, its all appreciated.
noahbuddyParticipantMarch 19, 2014 at 3:40 pm #49462
What you need to do is find out more about your “crush” girl. You may find her interesting now, but she might be totally the wrong girl for you once you get to talking. Don’t try to take things too far with either girl until you’ve sorted out which one you like better. Remember, compatibility is more important than looks, but you have to find her attractive as well. It’s really a package deal.
JaimeFortuneParticipantMarch 19, 2014 at 4:53 pm #49478
Well now it sounds like you have a crush on the other girl. Just do what you want. If you want to date the new girl, date her. If you want to date your crush, date her. If you want to date both of them….. don’t do that unless they’re cool with it. Just go where you are attracted to the most. If that fails you can try the other.
NeedsMoreCowbellParticipantMarch 21, 2014 at 8:18 pm #49645
Find out more about your crush, I’d lean towards the new girl though.
aldn1212ParticipantMarch 21, 2014 at 10:46 pm #49646
You should stay with the one that makes you feel complete.
kaleighnicole14ParticipantMarch 22, 2014 at 4:44 pm #49648
Date the new chick. Obviously the one you’ve had a crush on never sent you the right signals. Think to yourself, who do you want? Who’s nicer, prettier, funnier, and makes your day.
confused08ParticipantMarch 27, 2014 at 11:25 am #49931
It is a tough choice but what i think you should do is dont rush into anything with either girl just yet get to know both and follow what your heart tells you just go slow find out which girl you have more in common with and go from there.
Link_The_ProgrammerParticipantMarch 28, 2014 at 4:55 pm #49993
Ok that would be hard to pick, but I think the most logical sense of it would be to date the one you actually know about rather than the one you crush on.
nasco15ParticipantMarch 31, 2014 at 3:39 am #50062
I’d learn a bit more about crush and get to a similar level your on with the newer girl and decide from there keep us posted champ
TankDominoParticipantMarch 31, 2014 at 2:33 pm #50099
If it was me, I wouldn’t worry about the crush anymore. I would be into what is going on now. In the future word gets around i’m talking with another girl and crush wants ME now instead of me crushing on her.
afflkParticipantMarch 31, 2014 at 3:58 pm #50122
you have a crush on her for a reason, follow the mental chemistry. Think with your heart too
blvck92ParticipantMarch 31, 2014 at 11:50 pm #50136
I would choose the girl you talked to on the phone all night.. you have more chemistry with her.
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