I can't seem to figure her out

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I can't seem to figure her out

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    marko1989
    marko1989
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    August 27, 2014 at 11:46 am #60234
    Reply To: I can't seem to figure her out

    Ask her out

    ABH092513
    ABH092513
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    August 27, 2014 at 6:25 pm #60257
    Reply To: I can't seem to figure her out

    I’d agree with everyone and just ask her out

    metfan408
    metfan408
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    August 27, 2014 at 8:07 pm #60268
    Reply To: I can't seem to figure her out

    Could you ask her to give you a time that she knows she will not have to cancel and set the date for then? Or just tell her you are concerned about her canceling over and over and ask her whats up?

    littlenurse90
    littlenurse90
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    August 28, 2014 at 4:35 pm #60318
    Reply To: I can't seem to figure her out

    just ask her out, shes probably interested in you anyway

    markduplass
    markduplass
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    August 29, 2014 at 8:31 am #60309
    Reply To: I can’t seem to figure her out

    Hey everyone, thank you for your comments! They have really put things into perspective for me. I will try to ask her out for lunch tomorrow so as to start things off slow and test the waters. Then I’ll ask her out to a movie or something a bit more fun. However, I haven’t seen or talked to her for almost a week because of my class schedule and her work schedule conflicting. She texted about a week ago and after I replied she just didn’t reply for the rest of the day. Then the next day she texted me and I replied but she didn’t respond after that. Then a couple of days later I tried texting her but she didn’t respond. Is she not interested in me anymore? I’m still going to ask her out it’s just that I’m starting to get warning signs that she might not be interested in me anymore.

    dmj106
    dmj106
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    August 30, 2014 at 1:27 am #60419

    I would be fearful of getting caught in the dreaded “friend-zone”. She seems interested, but I’d be slightly concerned about her cancelling dates over and over again. I may give it another time or two to play out and if it continues, then you can sorta tell that it may not happen.

    aimeesquash
    aimeesquash
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    August 31, 2014 at 5:20 am #60456

    Some girls say those things lightly, others don’t. You need to say it back and see where it goes

    farmerjohn1324
    farmerjohn1324
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    September 1, 2014 at 4:31 am #60468

    Yea just ask what she thinks, that would probably work.

    Andrizzle
    Andrizzle
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    September 1, 2014 at 12:22 pm #60470

    Be direct, you miss 100% of shots you don’t take.

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