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katherinexhParticipantFebruary 18, 2019 at 7:49 pm #195122
5 years ago i met a guy and we hit it off immediately, there was wit, excitement and a lot of fun, we were 15 and 16 at the time so we both never really had all that stuff before. It was a pretty big deal for me but we were never officially dating. That didnt really bother me because what we had was enough and i was scared that something was going to change if we put a lable on it ( i think that has to do with my divorced parents and my moms inability to keep a man for more that a year.) But i think my fear of commitment made him insecure and we gradually stopped talking. About a year after we stopped talking we ran into eachother at a party and it felt like we never stopped. We had so much fun that night and it all felt like old times, he texted me the next morning we talked for a bit but after that I didn’t hear anything from him again.
katherinexhParticipantFebruary 19, 2019 at 8:21 am #195123
But last month out of the blue he started responding to my insta and snapchat stories again asking questions about how ive been and what ive been up to lately stuff like that. Shortly after that began i ran into him at a bar we were both drunk and i went home with him.(smart i know.) We occasionally talked after that and now he texted me that he wants to go out for drinks with me, but i think I ruined it by replying sarcastically and kind of dodgy. I do want to do it, all the guys ive been with after him were nothing in comparison and he was and is the only guy i have ever loved. But im scared of a repeat of what happened in the past so everytime he comes close i push him away but i dont want him to go and i dont know what to do. Especially now that i think i ruined it. So what do i do i need help
dashingscorpioParticipantFebruary 19, 2019 at 4:19 pm #195202
“…he wants to go out for drinks with me, but i think I ruined it by replying sarcastically and kind of dodgy.”
If you ever find yourself in a hole, the first thing you want to do is stop digging!
Truth be told if you want to be someone stop acting like you don’t.
Call the guy up and apologize for your stupid reply and (ask him) out.
You’re both in your early 20s and most people dating at this age are not going find their “soulmate”.
So stop putting pressure on yourself. If it’s meant to be it will be and if not life goes on.
“Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow. It empties today of its strength.” – Corrie Ten Boom
- This reply was modified 11 months ago by dashingscorpio.
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