I fell for an old friend from school. How do I approach her?


I fell for an old friend from school. How do I approach her?

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    September 30, 2014 at 1:11 pm #65098
    I fell for an old friend from school. How do I approach her?

    Yesterday I was at a class reunion. We went to school together from when we were 7 to 12 years old, so it had been a while. It wasn’t a great party, kinda tame, but it was nice seeing my old friends and all that. In particular I met this one girl who I wasn’t ever really great friends with, although I did hang out with her circle of friends. At the party we didn’t talk that much, because as we were getting started taking shots together she started feeling sick and so that was that. Right now I can’t stop thinking about her. The problem is that we don’t live in the same town anymore and we don’t really have a lot of common friends except for my old friends from that school. She does, however, go to school close to me. She may very well not be interested in me at all but I have to at least try. She’s definitely not expecting me to contact her or anything, and she certainly isn’t going to contact me, so how do I contact her?

    October 2, 2014 at 9:04 am #65164

    Remote love is always challenging to begin with… Is she available at all? My experience in this -old friend- thing has been to be up front. Go for it. If you don’t ask, you’ll never get.

    October 5, 2014 at 1:39 am #65308

    Know what you mean man. It is really hard start a convo with someone when they are not “remote” as YoungMario said. But hey, you should at least give her try. Call her up if you have her number or find her on facebook or somethin!!