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IloveCats

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July 1, 2018 at 1:23 am #178521

I have problems having guys interested in me?

I have problems having guys interested in me?

dashingscorpio

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July 1, 2018 at 12:24 pm #178532

You need to be a little more specific about what the problem is. (Too many? or Not enough are interested in you?)
Ultimately it’s who (you) find attractive that counts. Nothing happens until (you) say: Yes!

Nsfun132

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July 1, 2018 at 8:13 pm #178538

More info please

Starshine

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July 2, 2018 at 4:39 am #178549

Yes, please, we cannot advise you if you do not give us some details. It would be like guiding you along a steep and rocky path while we’re wearing blindfolds!

This reply was modified 11 months, 4 weeks ago by Starshine.

WelshDude

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July 2, 2018 at 7:41 am #178527

You just haven’t found the right guy. If it’s an option, go out, do more things that you like to do and you’ll find a compatible person, most likely after you’ve stopped looking. it’s weird but no one understands the precise nature of attraction, you have to feel it.

IloveCats

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July 3, 2018 at 7:27 am #178621

I haven’t looked but I’ve still haven’t found a boyfriend yet.

Paris_London1983

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July 3, 2018 at 8:43 am #178638

be more open

dashingscorpio

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July 3, 2018 at 2:28 pm #178646

“I haven’t looked but I’ve still haven’t found a boyfriend yet.”

Imagine if someone said: “I haven’t looked but I’ve still haven’t found a job yet.”
Even a lottery winner has to buy a ticket!

You didn’t mention your age but if you’re reasonably attractive, personable, and have a good sense of humor; guys will take an interest.

Oftentimes a couple of women will dress up, go to an event together, a party, happy hours, or out dancing and guys will talk with them.
You could post a dating profile on Match or some other dating site with a good photo along with some of your interests.
You could sign up for some hobby/interests groups on Meetup dot com, join a gym, hang out at the beach or swimming pool with a friend…

In order to meet someone you have to “run in the same circles” as them.
Don’t just go places to meet guys. Go to have some FUN!
Everything else will take care of itself.
Best wishes!

IloveCats

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July 3, 2018 at 7:32 pm #178658

Reply To: I have problems having guys interested in me?

Being reasonably attractive or just attractive is not a reason for a guy to take a interested.

IloveCats

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July 3, 2018 at 7:33 pm #178659

Reply To: I have problems having guys interested in me?

How do I be more open?

dashingscorpio

Participant

July 4, 2018 at 5:12 pm #178672

Reply To: I have problems having guys interested in me?

IloveCats: “Being reasonably attractive or just attractive is not a reason for a guy to take a interested.” WRONG!

You are not a guy! And you’re not thinking like a guy.
There’s a reason why duck hunters use a whistle that makes “quack noises” and not one that makes “moo noises”.
The mistake a lot of women make is they don’t even try to put themselves in a man’s shoes.

Every smart hunter studies their prey. They don’t TELL the prey what they {should} like or be looking for!
You find out what (they like) or are attracted to and then you give them the perception it’s right in front of them.

The initial impetus for why a guy approaches a woman let alone asks her out and spends money on her is because HE is attracted to her! Everything outside of physical attractiveness is (icing) on the cake!
Most men would rather date a “hot looking” cocktail waitress than a “plain Jane” cardiologist. (That’s the world we live in.)