I have very high standars


I have very high standars

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    February 3, 2020 at 5:20 am #228804
    I have very high standars

    I have very high standars. Recently divorced. Good job and money status. Cant work out in a gym beacause I have chronic fatigue syndrome.Bald, 1.75m, glasses wearing, Fit (not obese). High education. I am looking for women in their 40s or 50s that are very high maintenence.And that is the problem. They are with men much stronger and hansome than me. So when I meet these women frequently in my social circle they just ignore me, are friendly and polite but neverf accept to go for coffe with me.

    February 3, 2020 at 5:22 am #228805

    And lowering my standards is sooo dificult for me. May be I have to go to therapist

    February 4, 2020 at 10:48 am #228926

    Don’t expect to sit next to the moon unless YOU are a STAR!

    The reason why so many “nice guys” finish last is because they don’t want to pursue “nice girls”.

    A guy who looks like Danny DeVito isn’t going to have a girlfriend who looks like Charlize Theron.
    That’s just the ABCs of life!

    If you’re looking for hot looking “gold diggers” to trade their looks for your cash you have options.

    1.There are “Sugar Baby/Sugar Daddy online dating sites” or you can hire top of the line escorts.

    2. Another possibility is to obtain some type of “fame” or notoriety in your local area which garners media coverage.
    Everyone wants to be connected to “someone” in the public eye especially those with young impressionable minds.

    3. Consider legitimate foreign matchmaking services for women in places like (Russia, Asia, Latin America, and the Philippines)
    These countries are popular for “average looking guys” seeking desperate {beautiful women} who desire a better life.

    February 4, 2020 at 11:17 am #228929

    The other option is work on YOURSELF!
    If you want something different YOU have to do something different.

    The first rule of hunting is to learn what the (prey) desires or finds attractive.
    A duck hunter doesn’t make “moo” noises because that’s not speaking the duck’s language.

    Look into hair replacement options and trade your glasses in for contact lenses. (They’re available in multiple colors too)
    Dress upscale, smell good, maintain a sense of confidence/swagger, be personable/flirtatious/good sense of humor.
    Own/lease a sleek sexy car, take classes beautiful women take such as acting or take a fashion photography class.
    You may even want to start a side hustle as a actor/model headshot and portfolio photographer.
    (Post an ad and they will come.)

    Perform calisthenics for exercise or join a gym which has Pilates or yoga classes (usually mostly women are there)
    Befriend “players”/guys who are having luck with beautiful women and learn.
    Don’t look at dating avg.looking women as lowering your standards but rather as practice.
    Brad Pitt dated Juliette Lewis before dating Jennifer Aniston and Angelina Jolie!

    February 4, 2020 at 6:58 pm #228981

    You should never have to lower your standards. But if your standards are high, then you may need to accept that it may be a tad harder to find someone and you may have to wait a tad longer. That is all.

    February 13, 2020 at 8:04 am #229528

    Agreed with dashingscorpio dude! Work on yourself! That’s what I did.

    Years ago this was me:
    375 pounds
    Type II diabetes
    Hair thinning
    Horrible job with next to no pay.

    This is me now:
    185 pounds with an active and fit lifestyle of both at home workouts as well as intense roller skating every Friday and Saturday.
    Type II diabetes reversed through hardcore dieting and exercise. Aka, I am no longer sick.
    Hair growing back (using iRestore laser helmet, plus diet helps this as well)
    My own business where I help people who were like me become who I am today.

    Now I have a feeling that the response will be “but the doctors said I can’t”. Well, I’ve been doing everything that everyone has said I can’t in the past few years, so the lesson there is refuse to take NO for an answer. If you want to work out, then get on a plan, maybe something light starting out.