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BeckyLynnParticipantAugust 21, 2017 at 12:54 am #146222
So I recently started dating this amazing girl and I am starting to have really strong feelings for her. In fact, I am falling in love with her but I’m scared that she may not feel the same way or that telling her this will scare her off. We’ve been talking for a month, dating for 2 weeks and I don’t want to tell her too soon as it might not be the right time. But at the same time, I can no longer ignore how I feel about her and feel that I’m kind of lying to myself as well as her by not saying anything. What should I do?
yesha20ParticipantAugust 22, 2017 at 3:26 am #146399
I think it would be nice if you’d tell her what you feel so. It’s better that you know if she has also some feelings for you or not so you’d know whether to continue or not.
VitdlcParticipantNovember 21, 2017 at 10:58 am #157079
I feel as if you’re ready there’s no reason to wait :)) if she feels the same wonderful and if not it’s her loss.
dangthaidhkt999ParticipantNovember 28, 2017 at 9:03 pm #157684
follow your heart tell you! … boldly on you!
Matt83SParticipantJanuary 1, 2018 at 7:57 am #161142
Tell her how you feel. Dont tell her you love her because this may scare her love is very misunderstood many people mistake love for an emotional attachment. But tell her that you have feeling for her and let her know
acetopwonParticipantJanuary 2, 2018 at 9:11 am #161111
Dude, take it slow. Its been only 2 weeks and it will scare her off and even seem a bit creepy on her side
JustParticipantFebruary 11, 2018 at 3:33 pm #165247
I think trust and communication are two of the most important aspects of any relationship. I personally told the girl I’m talking to that I loved her after a little over a month of talking. She wasn’t ready to say that back yet and I’ve never pressured her into it or made her feel bad for not being able to express the same things. Just don’t get your hopes up for her to be completely ready to take your relationship to the next level yet. Understand that she may need time, an that’s okay. Everyone works on their own timezone. But I don’t see harm in telling her how you feel.
TheBossParticipantFebruary 11, 2018 at 6:46 pm #165251
It’s too soon for the L word! But definitely tell her you are developing strong feelings for her. Better to know now if you have a shot or if you’re wasting time trying to make her love you in return.
missmarisParticipantFebruary 12, 2018 at 1:41 am #165256
I think it is lovely that you have these feelings. I would tell her. There is no time like the present. You will admire your honesty and that you can man up about it. I say go for it. !!
justme1990ParticipantFebruary 12, 2018 at 12:22 pm #165335
just tell her how you feel
NoobToLoveParticipantMarch 12, 2018 at 8:53 am #167202
I agree, tell her, not for her but for you.
veganangelofdoomParticipantApril 29, 2018 at 3:55 pm #171806
Go for it! Chances are she feels the same!
adubthamanParticipantApril 29, 2018 at 11:14 pm #171813
I agree..You need to tell her
catch34ParticipantJuly 10, 2018 at 3:54 pm #178926
I am in a similar situation as you and I personally think it would be better to wait just a little bit before you tell her that you love her. If you feel like this already,then your feelings will only get stronger. I would wait until you know her a bit more and can kind of read better how she may respond. In the end though do what is best for you. Be sure you are ready for her to have a negative reaction so that you know how to navigate around that and can ease her mind if she does not yet feel the same way you do. If this is the case don’t give up she just might need a bit more time
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